Originally posted by hblair
Toad, you my friend are one organized fella. Did you know who your team was gonna be in January?
Yes. In our system you are on a team until you quit, the team disbands or the coach makes you quit for a very few specifically allowed reasons.
My son was on a "B" team through 5th grade. I made him quit that team. Short version: We made it to the playoffs that year. The head coach deliberately "threw" the semi-final. He wanted to go to a tournament the next day, so he pitched our #5 pitcher and put our reserves in as starters...in the semi-final.
That's not what put me over the top, however. After the game he called the team together and gave them the post game speech. He told them (in the short version):
Good game. We lost and now the season is over. Some of us are going to a tournament tomorrow but some of you
don't deserve to go and won't be playing with us. The ones who are not going are Tommy, Joey, Billy and Sam. We'll see you next year."
You can imagine what this did to Tommy, Joey, Billy and Sam and their respective parents. Anger and tears do not begin to describe it.
At that point, I stepped out in front (I was an assistant coach) and said: "Ladies and gentlemen. I don't approve of this and I will not have any part of it. This is no longer a team. I will no longer help coach and my son will not play for this group next year, nor are we going to the tournament. I will start a new team next year and any of you are welcome to join".
I got my boy and five others off that team. I got nine more from other teams, mostly the unhappy kids that never got to play.
It's a long story but we studied hard, praticed harder. Every kid had an infield AND an outfield position and I kept records to make sure every kid was getting about the same number of innings and at bats through the year. I went to outside tournaments and let me non-starters start in those. Everyone "got their chance" to show their stuff. Yes, we usually lost the tournaments but we nearly won our division and we went to the quarterfinals in the tourney against the "A" and "B" teams.
In short, I was on a crusade to show that most of these kids can play decent ball if they are TAUGHT to play ball.
Most of the upper division teams ran on pure talent. Their kids were not taught baseball.
My greatest satisfaction came when the Freshman team was picked. The son of the guy who said "some of you
don't deserve to go" didn't make the team. Only two kids on his (by then)"A" team made it.