I'd listen to the men if I were you JB73. They know what they are talkin about.
I am buidling a 754 system right now. But I'd have gone 939 also if the price werent so cheap on the 754 (30 bucks).
If you can afford to stretch and get the 939, do it. Yeah, its still a gamble. They could be obsolete by Christmas. But waking up is a gamble.
The only reason I went with the 30 dollar 754 even is that I'm seeing the processor prices drop now that everyone is going full steam into the 939s. I found a Athlon 64 2800 CPU for under $100 last night. That, and I already have a case, power supply, memory, everything I need except the processor. So for less than 150 bucks I'll have this thing running. And considering the wife is giving me NO budget for this, cheap is good lol.
As for your other questions..........
I have used both Tiger Direct and Newegg several times. I dont like Tiger as much as I used to. Reason why is, almost every sale they run now is on mail-in rebates, not price drops. Getting the rebates is a hassle, and their return policy stinks. At least it did for me. Newegg, OTOH, does more price drop specials than rebates, has an excellent RMA process, gives great customer service, and are usually cheaper to boot.