No worries guys.
You wont believe this.. she just emailed me.
As I told Keg in my email, I had an idea of where she was thanks to some internet search results.. i had emailed her before at her old workplace but I was sure that since she didnt work there since mid '04 she wouldnt get it.. so I phoned some of her collegues and left my contact info with them.
And now it seems she still has access to it or someone forwarded my email to her.
Im so happy