Like I usally say Mac.
If God dosn't have a sense of Humor I'd rather spend eternity in hell.
Nothing can be said to ease the pain, like others have said, but take into consideration that, not only family members, and people in your town, but your friends and enemys alike here on AH are mourning the same loss as you are, never forget, you are not alone..
Rejoice in her life.. Not in her death.