Author Topic: appreciate your wife (Read 1138 times)

DREDIOCK · « **Reply #15 on:** June 16, 2005, 12:04:07 AM »

Well good luck to you anyway & hope you find happiness wherever your road leads to

moot · « **Reply #16 on:** June 16, 2005, 03:19:05 AM »

You won't crash, take it easy.
Just focus on doing your best for yourself.
Win-win for you and her.

~~Take care Pooh~~

Nilsen · « **Reply #17 on:** June 16, 2005, 03:43:37 AM »

Good luck pooh and don't give up on love.
Not saying you should turn into one of them stalking crazy people, but let her know how you feel and give here some space..

send her some flowers when you get across the pond

Captain Virgil Hilts · « **Reply #18 on:** June 16, 2005, 07:21:46 AM »

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Originally posted by Pooh21
I guess you can all mock me. It is a roundtrip ticket. I think some space will help and hell I havent seen my parents and grandparents for like 5 years and they are 60s and 90s respectivly. But I think positive now it will work out.

But this might be my last post here for awhile, been a fun 4 years

S! to you all

I don't think anyone is mocking you, I'm not. By all means, go see your family. Maybe a few days away will help. But weeks or months won't, you can't hide from it, neither of you, if you want to reconcile.

eskimo2 · « **Reply #19 on:** June 16, 2005, 07:38:22 AM »

I really won’t mock you pooh. But I do think that you are blowing it. As Captain Virgil Hilts said, a long time away will not be good. You’re probably 25 and you’ve changed a bit since you got married. You will change even more, just make sure that it’s for the better.

eskimo

lazs2 · « **Reply #20 on:** June 16, 2005, 07:59:45 AM »

pooh... hope you get what you want but..

sometimes no matter how badly we want something... we are better off without it. Sometimes a mariage is what is causing problems in life. I would treat the six months as a time to get to know myself and to do things that you wouldn't be able to do when you were married...

While it is only natural to be sad over the potential for loss....Being misserable won't help either of you..

lazs

Torque · « **Reply #21 on:** June 16, 2005, 08:21:10 AM »

lay off the booze, with a clean mind pen your thoughts of her and your expectations regarding the relationship, mail it. give it some time, then call her.

Schaden · « **Reply #22 on:** June 16, 2005, 08:28:05 AM »

If we're giving advice here's mine - you're allowed to totally screw things up a few times, the younger you are the easier it is to bounce back and rebuild - under 30 2-3 times easy, over 30, once is doable - over 40 don't even think about it.

In ten or twenty years you'll look back at what now seems to be terrible and you'll wonder what all the fuss was about.

lazs2 · « **Reply #23 on:** June 16, 2005, 08:32:51 AM »

shaden is right about time tho... I am really glad that my wives are no longer my wives.

lazs

Eagler · « **Reply #24 on:** June 16, 2005, 08:46:26 AM »

maybe he ain't leavin but she is bootin him out ... you all sound like he has a choice

sounds like he made the wrong choice already and now is paying for it

wishing him and his happiness and peace in whatever form it takes for them in their future

Habu · « **Reply #25 on:** June 16, 2005, 08:51:17 AM »

Sorry to hear that Pooh.

Thanks for the reminder. When I met my wife I decided to tell her I love her every day. That was over 10 years ago and I still do it. Usually in the morning when we wake up or at night after the kids are in bed.

You regret what has happened to your relationship and you acknowlage that you were partly to blame. That is a good thing. Give her a bit of space and tell her how you feel.

I hope you can work it out.

jetb123 · « **Reply #26 on:** June 16, 2005, 08:51:30 AM »

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Originally posted by Schaden
Try not to watch any airline crash investigation programmes up to a year before boarding a commercial flight - I did and the one about the little cargo door popping open on a 747 29,000 over the Pacific which caused a hole to blow out in the side of the jet (much to the surprise and consternation of those not wearing seatbelts) keeps popping into my bed as I lift off.

One minute you're grumbling about not getting the chicken dinner and your headset isn't working properly and then next you're in a 5 minute freefall - oh thank you very much Channel 4!!

Eh when i was traveling wasnt a preety sight to look out the window seeing a big hole in the wing. Preety funny when you see workers just patching it up with ducttape.

lazs2 · « **Reply #27 on:** June 16, 2005, 08:56:06 AM »

well... if nothing else...

It's really fun to watch the ex wives argue with their new husbands.

lazs

Siaf__csf · « **Reply #28 on:** June 16, 2005, 09:21:33 AM »

It's the best kind of ack hugging. (Hugging your wife that is.)

mosgood · « **Reply #29 on:** June 16, 2005, 09:33:52 AM »

Good luck Pooh

Stay away from the booze and do yourself a big favor....

Print out and keep your original post on this thread......

It might help keep things in perpective 6 months from now.

No shame in crying. It sometimes has it's purposes. shutup laz