Author Topic: appreciate your wife (Read 1060 times)

Pooh21 · « **on:** June 15, 2005, 06:55:59 PM »

Well crap it is here in hamburg 2am, I cant sleep I am leaving the city. I have I flight tomarrow at 9am, and seriously I am bawling like a damn girl. Maybe my marriage is ended? It is mostly my fault cause I drink too dmn much and then say things when we argue. My stuff is packed, She says maybe we can try again in 6 months but until then I move to america to live with my parents. Damn you never know what a good thing you have until it is like gone. I have given up drinking but until then I miss her. 2nd I cant stand flying in a civil airliner. If I flew myself then all would be ok(but of course I cant). I am damn scared I am like gonna die in a crash in like 6+ hours. Who knows if I make it back then if lucky have to come back here in 6th months. But until then appreciate your woman, give her flowers more, a little hug, maybe you dont need to fly that last sortie but spend some time listening what she wants to say. Oh I wish I did.And now I tell you tards that I am bawling like a baby and youll never let me live that down. So you praying type would be cool if you sent out good vibes for my wife, our future chances, and all the people on flights 74 and 784.(cause its selfish for me to ask for you to pray my sorry arse gets there in one piece).

Captain Virgil Hilts · « **Reply #1 on:** June 15, 2005, 07:01:27 PM »

Good luck. I hate to see things go like that for anyone.

Toad · « **Reply #2 on:** June 15, 2005, 07:07:29 PM »

Two questions:

Why do you HAVE to go? Can you stay, let things settle a bit and then try to reconcile?

If you have to go, why all the way to the US? Long distance romance is tough enough when things are going well. Can you just move to a nearby town? Heck, Hamburg is big enough that you could move cross town and probably not see her if that is what is necessary.

Good luck. Hey, don't worry about the flying; it's extremely low risk.

BTW, you're right. Mine needs some serious huggin', thankin' and respectin'. She's been through a lot this year and I've been remiss in that department. Thanks for the reminder!

Schaden · « **Reply #3 on:** June 15, 2005, 07:09:26 PM »

Try not to watch any airline crash investigation programmes up to a year before boarding a commercial flight - I did and the one about the little cargo door popping open on a 747 29,000 over the Pacific which caused a hole to blow out in the side of the jet (much to the surprise and consternation of those not wearing seatbelts) keeps popping into my bed as I lift off.

One minute you're grumbling about not getting the chicken dinner and your headset isn't working properly and then next you're in a 5 minute freefall - oh thank you very much Channel 4!!

Schaden · « **Reply #4 on:** June 15, 2005, 07:10:40 PM »

Oh and try not to post on the BBS when you're A. Tired and Emotional or B. Drunk - you'll only hate yourself in the morning.

GtoRA2 · « **Reply #5 on:** June 15, 2005, 07:16:08 PM »

Sorry to hear that Pooh, I know how it feels.

Get yourself together and she may take you back. Work at showing her once you have it together how much you do.

eskimo2 · « **Reply #6 on:** June 15, 2005, 07:17:48 PM »

If there is anything worth crying about, it’s the loss of love from a good woman.

Toad is right, don’t leave. Don’t be a stalker retard either. Devote all the time that you have to making yourself a better man for her. Write to her in a non-stalker way.

If you have to fly, get over it. You are not going to die. There are thousands of things that are more likely to kill you. I won’t pray that you’re plane won’t crash; that would be a waste of time. I will pray that your cab doesn’t crash on the way to the airport though.

eskimo

Pooh21 · « **Reply #7 on:** June 15, 2005, 07:32:03 PM »

lol Eskimo thanks

Dang you Schaden, thats why I always wear the damn seatbelt.

Oh its too late have the tickets and have quit my job here.

LePaul · « **Reply #8 on:** June 15, 2005, 07:49:07 PM »

Its never too late.

Get outta this mindset and try to set things right

Captain Virgil Hilts · « **Reply #9 on:** June 15, 2005, 08:07:32 PM »

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Originally posted by Pooh21
lol Eskimo thanks

Dang you Schaden, thats why I always wear the damn seatbelt.

Oh its too late have the tickets and have quit my job here.

Cash the tickets in or sell them, and find another job. I doubt the distance will help. You can do this, and even if it doesn't work out, you'll survive, and be a better man for it.

storch · « **Reply #10 on:** June 15, 2005, 08:52:48 PM »

I think I'd miss the beer the autobahn. I hope it works out for you two.

DREDIOCK · « **Reply #11 on:** June 15, 2005, 09:59:15 PM »

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Originally posted by Pooh21
lol Eskimo thanks

Dang you Schaden, thats why I always wear the damn seatbelt.

Oh its too late have the tickets and have quit my job here.

Its only too late if you let it be.
Tickets is just money & can be replaced

A job is just a job.& also can be replaced
Get another one. You were looking for a job when you go tthat one werent you.

Your one and only is not so easily replaced. Some people go their whole lives without finding one.

Drifter1234 · « **Reply #12 on:** June 15, 2005, 10:07:23 PM »

Pooh,

You can get a new job.

You can replace the cost of the flights.

You can never replace the love of a family.

eskimo2 · « **Reply #13 on:** June 15, 2005, 10:25:22 PM »

They are right, you made a huge mistake with your wife and the booze. If you leave, that will be huge mistake number two.

Don't leave. Think about all the things that she's pissed about, think about what she wants from you. Fix it.
Consider this your wake up call.

If you fly back to the US, we will mock you for blowing it when you still had a chance.

eskimo

Pooh21 · « **Reply #14 on:** June 15, 2005, 11:13:23 PM »

I guess you can all mock me. It is a roundtrip ticket. I think some space will help and hell I havent seen my parents and grandparents for like 5 years and they are 60s and 90s respectivly. But I think positive now it will work out.

But this might be my last post here for awhile, been a fun 4 years

S! to you all

Author Topic: appreciate your wife (Read 1060 times)

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