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« Reply #405 on: July 05, 2005, 07:16:22 PM »
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Seagoon!  Great sermon!  I'm not sure what aspects would be illegal in Sweden, but I don't see that you would be charged with a hate crime in Canada. :aok


Crow,

Thank you. Keep in mind that was only point three in a three pointer. The other two points were #1 What does the Bible Teach About Gay Marriage? #2 How Does A Society Get to this Point? How did We?

The Swedish law assumes that to call homosexual sex an abomination is an act of hate against homosexuals likely to incite violence towards them, so reading and preaching Leviticus or Romans as I did in point 1 would immediately get me in trouble.
 

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I have a question though...and I'm not trying to be mean or insulting:  Why don't you live by that sermon?

Why wouldn't you want to be like Paul and use the Good News and your witnessing to the culture as your means to change culture?  Instead of trying to legislate moral behavior (which doesn't work well), why not change the culture's desire for the behavior.  That way, even if gay marriage was legal, no one would exercise that right because they wouldn't want to.

From what I understand, God has given me the right to choose to lead a righteous life or not...why do Christians feel they need to legally force me to lead their version of a righteous life and strip that God given right from me?  I know you want to save as many from damnation as possible, but even if you legislate every moral code in the Bible and I live by them all, I will not be saved according to your beliefs because I admit that I do not have faith that the Bible is more than the written word of a man and not a revealed work of God.  Of course you could throw the Constitution out the window and try to legally force me to believe...but I would probably prefer to endure persecution and exicution over admitting to something that I do not believe is true.
 


That's a valid question, and it indicates that I probably wasn't clear enough. I certainly try to practice that which I preach and teach (in all things I fall short, and remain a debtor to grace.)  I do not advocate that the church become involved in partisan politics, and in my role as a pastor, God forbid that I would ever abuse my calling and stand in the pulpit and act as a shill for one party or the other.

However, Christians are called, as I said in the sermon snipet, to be good citizens and the church must exercise a prophetic role in society by proclaiming both law and gospel.

We believe that the moral law of God which is summarized in the Ten Commandments (decalogue) has three uses:

1) As Revealer of Sin - By showing us God's holiness and our reflected sinfulness the law acts as a schoolmaster leading us to Christ for salvation
2) As the Norm For Sanctification - Once we have come to Christ for salvation and been given new hearts the law acts as a rule and guide for our sanctification - growth in grace, answering critical questions for the Christian like "How should I act towards God? How should I treat my fellow men?"
3) As a Restrainer of Sin - This third use of the law is sometimes called the usus politicus or usus civilis it states that the moral law of God is supposed to function as the rule and guide for our civil laws. Here is a section from a systematic theology explaining it further:

"C. The Law as a Restraint to Sin – usus politicus or usus civilis .
In addition to these two direct uses of the law, there is a beneficial side–effect of the preaching of the law. Such preaching serves to act as a restraining influence against sin in the world. The law systems of the various western European countries were based on the Ten Commandments. This is certainly true regarding the English law, which was the basis for American law. As one analyzes the nature of any human system of law, he must recognize that it always involves a theology. Law is based on an ultimate authority––God or man. When a society sets aside the theological basis upon which its laws are based, it is in danger of losing the whole law fabric. This is the current situation in America today. It is the duty of Christians to seek to call their nation back to a proper theological basis for the laws of the land."
[Smith, Dr. Morton H. Systematic Theology, Volume One : Prolegomena, Theology, Anthropology, Christology.]

So the church is called to proclaim the whole counsel of God, and Christians are to strive to live their lives according to it. In the legislative arena (which is entered into not by the church, but by private citizens who are members of it) this will involve standing for laws based on the moral law and voting against laws that seek to overturn it.

But our ultimate objective is not to win the battle against sin and evil by legislation, the most that legislation can do is restrain it. As you pointed out our ultimate desire is to change hearts and lives forever via the gospel.

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You mention that your church was outraged about the 10c removal from the courthouse.  And based on your posts, you seem to be outraged by "liberal activist" judges and their decisions enough to support reigning in their power and giving more to legislative bodies where religion is concerned.
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Actually, I paraphrased another pastor by the name of Bill Smith who noted the irony in the fact that American Evangelicals (the church corporately not our church particularly) was upset at the removal of a 10 commandments monument in Alabama but that evangelicals had been "ejecting" the same ten commandments from their churches for years (just mention the 10 commandments around many Christians and immediately the word "legalist" comes out) What good is a chunk of rock if the words printed on it have no value to either the world or the church?
 
BTW - I am convinced that only an originalist interpretation of the constitution will safeguard the rights vouchsafed in the constitution, amongst them the right to freedom of religion.

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Why doesn't your church see that when a judge overturns a law like the ban on gay marriage or ordering the removal of the 10c or "under God", that it is not an attack on Christianity.  As you say, governments are of this world and for this world...the church is in this world but not of it.  If that is the case, then these court decisions cannot harm Christianity or the church...it would only force the congregation to allow God to be their judge of immoral activity rather than an imperfect human judge.  The way I see it, that is better for all in the end.  Everyone gets to live by their beliefs so long as they do not infringe on the rights of others.  And in the end God decides who lived the righteous life.


The Church and State are separate powers, ordained over separate spheres. The church has no right to make a constitution for or rule the state, and the state has no right to make a constitution for or rule the church. However (and this understanding is also that of the constitution and its framers) we would say that both of their powers devolve from God, and that that power is delegated by God. He has ordained them to act as his viceregents and given them power to do so.

However, if I, as an elder in the church, set aside God's laws and say "listen instead to my opinions, obey my word, not God's word, I shall be as God to you" as so many cult leaders have for instance, then I cease to be an undershepherd of the Lord and become a usurper, and a tyrant. God's people have a right at that point to say, "NO! We ought to obey God rather than Man. You have no right nor power to say and do these things, nor to insist that we do them. Only God can command our consciences."

In a similar fashion, when a civil magistrate overturns the decalogue and says "I will instead rule according to my opinions" he ceases to be a just ruler rightly exercising his delegated power and becomes a tyrant and a usurper. In matters indifferent  (alternate side of the street parking laws for example) on which the decalogue doesn't directly bear, his opinions may hold sway and are to obeyed if they are the law of the land.

However if, for instance, he says, "Those who buy the right to do so from me, may legally seize your land at will", he has overturned God's law which states "You shall not steal." He may believe it is legal, but it is not, and no Christian may lawfully buy and exercise that unlawful power. Moreover, it is their duty in the civil sphere, in so far as they can, to oppose all such laws.

Plus, keep in mind that as private citizens we have no desire to live in, or attempt to raise our children in, a land dominated by immoral laws. If we have no choice, as was the case in Corinth long ago or North Korea today, then we will do so, but in a society such as ours we will do what we can to create a society with laws that sweetly comply God's laws.

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« Reply #406 on: July 05, 2005, 11:23:13 PM »
SEA unless Im mistaken you believe in a literal reading of the bible although you accept translations that fit your needs?

If so how do you pick and choose what you believe?

" It always amazes me how many times this God orders the killing of innocent people even after the Ten Commandments said “Thou shall not kill”.  For example, God kills 70,000 innocent people because David ordered a census of the people (1 Chronicles 21).  God also orders the destruction of 60 cities so that the Israelites can live there.  He orders the killing of all the men, women, and children of each city, and the looting of all of value (Deuteronomy 3).  He orders another attack and the killing of “all the living creatures of the city: men and women, young, and old, as well as oxen sheep, and asses” (Joshua 6).  In Judges 21, He orders the murder of all the people of Jabesh-gilead, except for the virgin girls who were taken to be forcibly raped and married.  When they wanted more virgins, God told them to hide alongside the road and when they saw a girl they liked, kidnap her and forcibly rape her and make her your wife!  Just about every other page in the Old Testament has God killing somebody!  In 2 Kings 10:18-27, God orders the murder of all the worshipers of a different god in their very own church!  In total God kills 371,186 people directly and orders another 1,862,265 people murdered.

  The God of the Bible also allows slavery, including selling your own daughter as a sex slave (Exodus 21:1-11), child abuse (Judges 11:29-40 and Isaiah 13:16), and bashing babies against rocks (Hosea 13:16 & Psalms 137:9). "

I find some glaring contradictions in the book. Which means I find glaring contradictions when someone says they believe in the bible as the written word and that it is what we should follow as your God's law.

 If the Bible was divinely inspired, then why would it have so many really obvious contradictions?

 Believe it or not this is the very short list of contradictions:



Theological doctrines:

     1. God is satisfied with his works
         Gen 1:31
        God is dissatisfied with his works.  
         Gen 6:6
     2. God dwells in chosen temples
         2 Chron 7:12,16
        God dwells not in temples
         Acts 7:48
     3. God dwells in light
         Tim 6:16
        God dwells in darkness
         1 Kings 8:12/ Ps 18:11/ Ps 97:2
     4. God is seen and heard
         Ex 33:23/ Ex 33:11/ Gen 3:9,10/ Gen 32:30/ Is 6:1/
          Ex 24:9-11
        God is invisible and cannot be heard
         John 1:18/ John 5:37/ Ex 33:20/ 1 Tim 6:16
     5. God is tired and rests
         Ex 31:17/ Jer 15:6
        God is never tired and never rests
         Is 40:28
     6. God is everywhere present, sees and knows all things
         Prov 15:3/ Ps 139:7-10/ Job 34:22,21
        God is not everywhere present, neither sees nor knows all      
        things
         Gen 11:5/ Gen 18:20,21/ Gen 3:8
     7. God knows the hearts of men
         Acts 1:24/ Ps 139:2,3
        God tries men to find out what is in their heart
         Deut 13:3/ Deut 8:2/ Gen 22:12
     8. God is all powerful
         Jer 32:27/ Matt 19:26
       God is not all powerful
         Judg 1:19
    Moral Precepts

     24. Robbery commanded
          Ex 3:21,22/ Ex 12:35,36
         Robbery forbidden
          Lev 19:13/ Ex 20:15
     25. Lying approved and sanctioned
          Josh 2:4-6/ James 2:25/ Ex 1:18-20/ 1 Kings 22:21,22
         Lying forbidden
          Ex 20:16/ Prov 12:22/ Rev 21:8
     26. Hatred to the Edomite sanctioned
          2 Kings 14:7,3
         Hatred to the Edomite forbidden
          Deut 23:7
     27. Killing commanded
          Ex 32:27
         Killing forbidden
          Ex 20:13
     28. The blood-shedder must die
          Gen 9:5,6
         The blood-shedder must not die
          Gen 4:15
Historical Facts

     58. Man was created after the other animals
          Gen 1:25,26,27
         Man was created before the other animals
          Gen 2:18,19
     59. Seed time and harvest were never to cease
          Gen 8:22
         Seed time and harvest did cease for seven years
          Gen 41:54,56/ Gen 45:6
     60. God hardened Pharaoh's heart
          Ex 4:21/ Ed 9:12
         Pharaoh hardened his own heart
          Ex 8:15
     61. All the cattle and horses in Egypt died
          Ex 9:3,6/ 14:9
       All the horses of Egypt did not die
          Ex 14:9
     62. Moses feared Pharaoh
          Ex 2:14,15,23; 4:19
         Moses did not fear Pharaoh
          Heb 11:27
Speculative Doctrines

      108. Christ is equal with God
           John 10:30/ Phil 2:5
          Christ is not equal with God
           John 14:28/ Matt 24:36
     109. Jesus was all-powerful
           Matt 28:18/ John 3:35
          Jesus was not all-powerful
           Mark 6:5
     110. The law was superseded by the Christian dispensation
           Luke 16:16/ Eph 2:15/ Rom 7:6
          The law was not superseded by the Christian dispensation
           Matt 5:17-19
     111. Christ's mission was peace
           Luke 2:13,14
          Christ's mission was not peace
           Matt 10:34
     112. Christ received not testimony from man
           John 5:33,34
          Christ did receive testimony from man
           John 15:27
     113. Christ's witness of himself is true.
           John 8:18,14
          Christ's witness of himself is not true.
           John 5:31
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« Reply #407 on: July 05, 2005, 11:49:56 PM »
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3) As a Restrainer of Sin - This third use of the law is sometimes called the usus politicus or usus civilis it states that the moral law of God is supposed to function as the rule and guide for our civil laws. Here is a section from a systematic theology explaining it further:

So the church is called to proclaim the whole counsel of God, and Christians are to strive to live their lives according to it. In the legislative arena (which is entered into not by the church, but by private citizens who are members of it) this will involve standing for laws based on the moral law and voting against laws that seek to overturn it.

However, if I, as an elder in the church, set aside God's laws and say "listen instead to my opinions, obey my word, not God's word, I shall be as God to you" as so many cult leaders have for instance, then I cease to be an undershepherd of the Lord and become a usurper, and a tyrant. God's people have a right at that point to say, "NO! We ought to obey God rather than Man. You have no right nor power to say and do these things, nor to insist that we do them. Only God can command our consciences."

In a similar fashion, when a civil magistrate overturns the decalogue and says "I will instead rule according to my opinions" he ceases to be a just ruler rightly exercising his delegated power and becomes a tyrant and a usurper. In matters indifferent  (alternate side of the street parking laws for example) on which the decalogue doesn't directly bear, his opinions may hold sway and are to obeyed if they are the law of the land.

However if, for instance, he says, "Those who buy the right to do so from me, may legally seize your land at will", he has overturned God's law which states "You shall not steal." He may believe it is legal, but it is not, and no Christian may lawfully buy and exercise that unlawful power. Moreover, it is their duty in the civil sphere, in so far as they can, to oppose all such laws.

Plus, keep in mind that as private citizens we have no desire to live in, or attempt to raise our children in, a land dominated by immoral laws. If we have no choice, as was the case in Corinth long ago or North Korea today, then we will do so, but in a society such as ours we will do what we can to create a society with laws that sweetly comply God's laws.

Greetings Seagoon,

I edited your post for brevity of my response...which I'm afraid may still be long.

Anyway, usus politicus/usus civili...hmmm are those in the Bible?  Is that God's words or John Calvin's?  To me, that concept seems counter to the sermon you quoted earlier.  It seemed you were saying the church is above man's law, so man's laws are inconsequential to the church.  Are you leaving unto Cesar what is Cesar's or are you looking to press your interpretation of God's will onto Cesar?  If you are, that seems to violate the "I shall become God to you" quote.  Calvin was not God, so why are you listening to him rather than the Bible itself?  Is it incomplete and need supplementing?

And let me stress that it is your interpretation...which may or may not be correct.  As I said in an earlier post, to even assume that yours is correct is hubris since you are attempting to guess God's will.  But seriously...there are many interpretations of the Bible.  Perhaps the Jehovah's Witnesses have the correct interpretation...in which case your congregation should not vote at all.  But if you did, you would need to vote to ban blood transfusions.  If we were to look at other more fundamentalist interpretations, then physicians should be banned, since only God can give life.  Or perhaps the Amish are correct and we should ban electricity and automobiles.

It seems to me, that our Constitution was designed to give religous freedom by not mandating any specific interpretation of God's will.  So that my interpretation of God's will is just as valid as yours.  And just because you may be of a majority mind does not give you the authority to legislate your interpretation on me.  Wasn't that why the Pilgrims left for the New World to begin with?

But let's look more closely at the Constitution.  I would put to you that it is a very unGodly document based on some interpretations of the Bible.  It blatantly opposes the Decalogue and Mosaic law in several areas.  Free speech...that's not allowed in the 10c: no taking the Lord's name in vain.  Freedom of religion...that's not allowed either, only religions based on the God of Moses are allowed.

So, are you saying that if a law were passed outlawing non-Jehovah/Yahweh religions so as to conform with the 1st Commandment and a judge struck it down as a violation of the 1st Amendment, then that judge has become a usurper and tyrant?
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Plus, keep in mind that as private citizens we have no desire to live in, or attempt to raise our children in, a land dominated by immoral laws.

By whose yardstick do we measure that morality?  Yours...a Jehovah's Witness...the Amish...Catholic...Hindu?  The moment you choose, you violate the 1st Amendment.  I see no difference in legislating all the moral laws of a religion compared to out-and-out establishing that religion as the national religion.
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but in a society such as ours we will do what we can to create a society with laws that sweetly comply God's laws.

But that seems contrary to the sermon you gave.  Would Paul have legislated away the right of choice to live righteously?  Is that what God wants...for you to take away the right He gave me?

I cannot see how you can "sweetly" create those laws.  It really sounds exactly like the kind of theocracy that is in Iran.  That country is a democracy with legitimate elections and a government with checks and balances just like ours...the only difference is that there are 4 branches of government.  The extra one is a council that makes sure that laws comply sweetly with God's laws and that the people who can be chosen to lead in government live righteously.

Frankly Seagoon...that kind of talk gives me the willies.

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« Reply #408 on: July 06, 2005, 12:56:02 AM »
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SEA unless Im mistaken you believe in a literal reading of the bible although you accept translations that fit your needs?

If so how do you pick and choose what you believe?


I generally use a dependable translation for study like the NASB or the NKJV backed up by the WTT BHS (Hebrew) and the NA27 (Greek). I use the NKJV with an interlinear for daily reading.

When it comes to the lexical differences between the major English translations (KJV, NKJV, NIV, NASB, NRSV, ESV) etc. none of them are radical enough to change a single doctrine. In fact, we regularly have bible studies where everyone is using a different translation, and yet we can all read along following the flow without once having to do a double take and say "well that's not right."

As far as picking and choosing go, I don't. I believe in the plenary, verbal, inspiration of the original autographs of the Bible. As we continue to discover older manuscripts of the canonical books, our confidence in our modern translations continues to grow. Pick up say an NASB in your local bookshop and you have for all intents and purposes a dependable translation of the word of God. Of course, I understand you do not believe the original authors to have been inspired, but regardless for all intents and purposes what they wrote is what you have access to.

The critical question is and always has been not are the translations dependable, but do you believe what they tell you? The answer to that question is ultimately where you and I differ.

I believe every word.

Lew we've gone over the following before, I think its largely pointless to do so again, I could spend hours interacting with all of them, but would that suddenly change your mind as to their veracity? It's like our prior interaction over 1 Cor. 6:9, I did the translational work knowing all the time that the words themselves were only authoratative to one of us in any event.

In other words, for me, this is the self-revelation of the living God who created the Universe, and is a sure rule and guide for my life, faith, and practice.

For you, its a document of dubious authenticity created entirely by primative men in order to explain what was to them unexplainable. Fine, I understand that, at one time that would have been my take (or worse actually) but I wasn't convinced otherwise by a process of battling over each scripture and verse, and I doubt you will be either.  

Although, its pointless, just to show I'm not unwilling to give a reason for the hope that I have, here are a few, dealing properly with all of them would take hours...

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" It always amazes me how many times this God orders the killing of innocent people even after the Ten Commandments said “Thou shall not kill”.


There are no "innocent people" after the fall in Gen. 3, see Gen. 8:21, Romans 3:10, Eph. 2:3, etc. And the commandment was "Lo Ratsach" - no murder. A blanket prohibition on killing would cover every living thing, and contradict the entire prior declaration to Noah in Gen. 9 which stated the lawfullness of killing animals for food and putting murderers to death (capital punishment).
 
Going through the rest of your quotes, the inhabitants of Canaan are not innocent, see above, additionally they were idolators who practiced infant sacrifice to false Gods by burning them alive, something declared an abomination and forbidden to the people of Israel. If they converted they were added to the people of God as were Rahab and Ruth.

The slavery spoken of was limited (unlike every other nation at the time) to seven years after which the captive was to be freed unless he opted to voluntarily stay and all female slaves taken as wives were specifically not to be denied the rights of a wife, which was also not a bargain you would have gotten in other nation at the time.

You call it murder (although if there is no God, the word itself is meaningless) implying that a righteous and holy God has no right to judge his creatures or punish them for cosmic treason, rebellion, and a host of other sins against His laws that make the crimes that we execute for paltry by comparison.

In your system Lew there is no such thing as a moral law given by God and consequently no sin, and the creator of the universe has no right of just punishment temporal or eternal. If he did cause the death of someone it would be no more just (but curiously no more unjust in a boundless system) than a drive by shooting.  In a nutshell, the whole message of redemption and salvation makes no sense because it is inherently unnecessary. There was no creator, no fall, no sin, and no fear of damnation. The sacrifice of Christ was therefore an unnecessary tragedy because no one was in need of salvation. There is no need for "good news" because there is no "bad news." Of course nothing in the Bible makes sense in such a system Lew, you have dismissed every feature that makes sense of the narrative and gives order and meaning to its unfolding progression.

To make a comparison, it would be like a murder mystery written in a society that had no legal system, no catagory of murder, and no possibility of punishment.

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« Reply #409 on: July 06, 2005, 01:39:21 AM »
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Hello Silat




- SEAGOON



Im just quoting the Hello as it seems so friendly:)

Lets just take one contradiction:
Christ is equal with God
John 10:30/ Phil 2:5
Christ is not equal with God
John 14:28/ Matt 24:36

If this doesnt suffice for the discussion then you pick one.
How can we/you take literally the word if the word is contradictory?

And Im not talking with you to verify the word. No one can do that:)
Im talking with you to understand your beliefs:)

On one hand I do think you have made it clear that you take the word at face value based on your interpretation.
Im just trying to understand how you reconcile that with all the contradictions. If I were to be this contradictory Im sure you would ask me the same question.



I believe in morals but not that God gave them to us. I do believe that people sin as per the definition of the word.Being a believer doesnt mean that you have morals and I dont.
 I dont think we differ as much as you think as far as sin goes. We differ on a few select issues.:)



For brevity I didnt take the whole quote. But murder is murder with or without God in my value system. It didnt take religion for man to understand that murder was wrong.


Anyway I understand if you dont want to continue this.. Seriously I do. Its a discussion that wont end. :)
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« Reply #410 on: July 06, 2005, 07:37:25 AM »
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Originally posted by Seagoon Now as to the ad hominem problem on the B.B., the offensive line "are you gay Silat, is that why you are so pro-gay?" is only one small expression of it. For instance, throughout this conversation, and in this thread, it has been commonly insinuated by many that those who are opposed to gay marriage do so irrationally and mostly because they hate gays. Follow Silat and Avro's threads above for instance. Unfortunately, I've gotten used to this. I am used to being treated like an imbecile or a hatemonger because of my faith, but have tried to commit myself to acting here on the principle of Romans 12:18-19 "Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men." When I have felt my ability to do this slipping, I've abandoned threads, on a couple of occasions I'll freely admit that I've abandoned a thread because I've found  that any possibility of civil discourse has entirely evaporated. But if we committed ourselves to running around rebuking every ad hominem on the board, we'd find discussion impossible and probably all run afoul of rule #6.


I'm not saying those against gay marriages hate gays. I'm saying that their arguments are illogical.

Logic is the only way to argument meaningfully because everyone can understand logic. That's why I use it in my arguments.

I cannot discuss something based on religion since I'm not religious myself. I find the concept highly illogical.

I don't mind religious people as long as they don't tell me what I should do. Those don't affect me at all so I don't mind them just like I don't mind gays wanting to get married.

The laws in Canada defends the right of religions to not perform gay marriages if they are against them. Without this clause the law would be anticonstitutionnal.

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« Reply #411 on: July 06, 2005, 08:58:59 AM »
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I'm not saying those against gay marriages hate gays. I'm saying that their arguments are illogical.

Logic is the only way to argument meaningfully because everyone can understand logic. That's why I use it in my arguments.

I cannot discuss something based on religion since I'm not religious myself. I find the concept highly illogical.

I don't mind religious people as long as they don't tell me what I should do. Those don't affect me at all so I don't mind them just like I don't mind gays wanting to get married.

The laws in Canada defends the right of religions to not perform gay marriages if they are against them. Without this clause the law would be anticonstitutionnal.


Declaring something illogical doesn't always make it so.  If you have never seen a logical argument, and a compelling one, opposing ssm, you must be hanging out with the wrong crowd.

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« Reply #412 on: July 06, 2005, 09:09:19 AM »
Martlet, here's a quick summary of the 'arguments' used again same sex marriage so far:

1. It's against the will of God/immoral.
2. It's unnatural.
3. If it doesn't produce offspring, then it is illogical.

If I've left out any, please jump in.  I don't find any of the three above to be either logical OR compelling.

Answer to 1: That's nice and all, but your God ain't mine.  Atheism and religion are NOT two great flavors that taste even better together, the way Peanut Butter and Chocolate do.

Answer to 2: Most of these arguments seem to circle back to 1.  By the very nature of the concept, you can't violate a law of nature.  The mere existance of the Turducken is proof of this.

Answer to 3: When pressed if barren or sterile male/female couples should be prevented from marrying, this falls apart.  Conversely, suggestion legislation that mandates children seems to suffer the same lack of resolve.

Martlet, jump in if you have an argument not covered above that you find compelling, and I'll edit it into my post.
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« Reply #413 on: July 06, 2005, 10:01:25 AM »
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Martlet, here's a quick summary of the 'arguments' used again same sex marriage so far:

1. It's against the will of God/immoral.
2. It's unnatural.
3. If it doesn't produce offspring, then it is illogical.

If I've left out any, please jump in.  I don't find any of the three above to be either logical OR compelling.

Answer to 1: That's nice and all, but your God ain't mine.  Atheism and religion are NOT two great flavors that taste even better together, the way Peanut Butter and Chocolate do.

Answer to 2: Most of these arguments seem to circle back to 1.  By the very nature of the concept, you can't violate a law of nature.  The mere existance of the Turducken is proof of this.

Answer to 3: When pressed if barren or sterile male/female couples should be prevented from marrying, this falls apart.  Conversely, suggestion legislation that mandates children seems to suffer the same lack of resolve.

Martlet, jump in if you have an argument not covered above that you find compelling, and I'll edit it into my post.


He didn't say THESE areguments are illogical, he used a broad statement encompassing all arguments.  That was what I addressed.

The people opposed to SSM fall into numerous camps.  You may not agree with them, but many of them are legitimate.  Some of the most popular are:

1.  Religious.  While this is a completely legitimate belief, it has no legal basis in a secular society.  It certainly doesn't stop people from voting their conscience.

2.  Community values.  This is more popular and has a legal basis.  Many people believe, correctly, that homosexuality is a deviant behavior.  While they support a person's right to participate in this behavior, they don't want to put their state seal of approval declaring the condone it.

3.  Another popular position, and the one I subscribe to, isn't so much with SSM directly, but the manner in which it was forced upon the voters through judicial activism.

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« Reply #414 on: July 06, 2005, 10:39:16 AM »
Interracial marriage was a big no-no in much of the country and the opponents of it used those same points.  I think that's pretty telling.  

That would give me pause, were I making the points you did, unless I was comfortable with racial discrimination and segregation.
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« Reply #415 on: July 06, 2005, 10:48:33 AM »
Some religion's allow same sex marriage.....

wouldn't it stand to reason, under freedom of religon, that this MUST be allowed in the U.S.?

I mean if that's how they want to worship .. who are you to say they can't ?

Or maybe you want the govement coming into YOUR church?

between sepration of church and state ... and freedom of religion...  I'd say your unAmerican if you want to force YOUR religion on others.

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« Reply #416 on: July 06, 2005, 11:11:53 AM »
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Interracial marriage was a big no-no in much of the country and the opponents of it used those same points.  I think that's pretty telling.  

That would give me pause, were I making the points you did, unless I was comfortable with racial discrimination and segregation.


inter-racial marriage is a straw man argument that pro-SSM types like to toss out.

First, "a big no-no" is far different than "not legal".  Secondly, an inter-racial marriage doesn't change the definition of "marriage".

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« Reply #417 on: July 06, 2005, 11:20:39 AM »
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inter-racial marriage is a straw man argument that pro-SSM types like to toss out.
Respectfully, it is no more a straw-man argument then the following:
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an inter-racial marriage doesn't change the definition of "marriage".
The same heterosexual couples will still be able to marry if gay couples are, so where's the change that affects you?

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"a big no-no" is far different than "not legal".  
As the gentleman in ID4 said, "That's not...  entirely...  accurate."  Antimiscegenation laws were on the books nationwide until relatively recently.  Same arguments were posed to prevent allowing them to be struck down as you are using to argue against allowing homosexuals to marry.
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« Reply #418 on: July 06, 2005, 11:26:39 AM »
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Respectfully, it is no more a straw-man argument then the following:
 


It certainly is.  Again, the two aren't comparable.  One changes the definition of marriage and was previously against the law.  The other doesn't, wasn't, and was merely social taboo.

Again, it's a straw man argument.

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 The same heterosexual couples will still be able to marry if gay couples are, so where's the change that affects you?



Who said anything about the change affecting me?  

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Same arguments were posed to prevent allowing them to be struck down as you are using to argue against allowing homosexuals to marry.


Again, that isn't accurate.   Any inter-racial marriage laws that existed, and I know of none, would have been struck down as unconstitutional since they are based entirely on race.  You can have inter-racial marriage and still fall within the definition of "marriage".  Not so with SSM
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« Reply #419 on: July 06, 2005, 11:27:52 AM »
You're wrong about the 'mere social taboo', didn't you see the bit in my post about Antimiscegenation laws?
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