Wait a minute, someone got mad because some other friendly flew into thier fight? You mean your allowed to get PO'd when someone does this? Well watermelon ferr and call me Rufus!
Seeing as how my gunnery ain't all that great I will usually try and get the bad guy into the best guns solution prior to shooting. I can't tell you how many times I get him right where I want him and another Bish comes screaming in and kills my now low and slow bad guy before I get the chance. Dead bad guy is a good thing is it not? Well, that's the way I look at it. If you were awarded assists without firing a shot I'd have thousands. I know my squadies just love flying with me as they get lots of kills at my expense.
My advice regarding bringing new players into the game is:
1. Tune them off of 200. Explain that it's the Romper Room channel and they can tune to it later if they like once they've gotten integrated into the game community. (I do not nor ever will tune to 200)
2. Explain that there are a lot of great players in this game but there are those who are, well, buttheads! You take them for what they are and realise that they are best left ignored.
3. Show them the .squelch command. That way if someone does get under their skin they can just .squelch them.
Gotta agree with Filth there, lighten up for crisesake! It is, just game, you know. Killstealing, killshooter, HOs and colliders, they are all just part of the game we love.