Better.  I just married a Japanese woman this time.  She comes home from work, she cooks, she cleans, she brings me a beer while I fly or surf the web or watch TV.  On the weekends if we want to see a movie, I never have to worry about seeing a chick flick this week because we saw Die Hard 21 last week or some crazy stuff like that.  As long as there is something I want to see, I can be guaranteed that she'll go see it and be happy about it.  When weekends come where I want to hit the shooting range, she's helping me carry my stuff to the car and out to the range, packs the sunscreen I always forget, makes sure to have a cooler with Gatorade and water handy (because I forget).................
Basically she picks up all my slack and remembers all the things I forget and takes care of me because she enjoys doing it.  How I got this lucky I'll never ever know, but I for one am not going to complain.  I just do my best to never take it for granted, thank her as often as possible, and let her know how much I appreciate it.  In return, I never have to feel guilty for being a man.  I'd say thats a damn fine trade.