Author Topic: True or False? (Read 918 times)

StarOfAfrica2 · « **Reply #30 on:** August 26, 2005, 12:26:48 PM »

Hehehe, I have watched it. Funniest **** I've ever seen. Those guys are the biggest pervs. Its like they found Japanese versions of Cheech and Chong, only instead of getting high all the time and mellowing out, they are wired on Coke and Viagra.

JBA · « **Reply #31 on:** August 26, 2005, 12:34:05 PM »

Married 8 years,

True statement.

But I try to establish a rule set.

Playing with kids is also a way out of mundane jobs.

I will handle all jobs that require Power Tools, the Car, the Basement, and the Garage, and all outside house work, gutters, roof, masonry etc.

I’ll toss in a little help in the Kitchen cook/clean so not to look like I’m not helping at all, I also do my own laundry so wife doesn’t have too, with two kids she dose laundry all day, then back to what I would rather being doing, building, organizing, etc.

Ripsnort · « **Reply #32 on:** August 26, 2005, 01:08:34 PM »

Gunthr · « **Reply #33 on:** August 26, 2005, 01:44:48 PM »

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False.

Unless there are real things that needs to get done i can relax as much as i want too.

If i dont do things that should get done tho she gives me that look. Never yells or nags me... but that look! - Nilson

From your previous posts, I've already concluded that you are a very lucky man. I remember you mentioning that she did not get angry if you looked at another women. All this, in a women who is your wife, who shares your passion, is so wonderful. It is very good that you realize that her "look" is shorthand for " I will cut your throat when you are asleep!"

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DREDIOCK · « **Reply #34 on:** August 26, 2005, 07:30:31 PM »

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Originally posted by Charon
I am not a pig at all, and will pick up after myself, but if I let dishes sit in the sink after a meal for 24 hours it drives her crazy,

Charon

My wife came home one day pissing and moaning about all the stuff I didnt do that she "asked" me to.

For some reason The thinks that when I occasionally take a day off just to catch up on paperwork or just have a day to myself that I really took off so that I could clean the house really really good. And she "Asks" me to.

Usually something like this.
"Oh you have off/are home today?
Good you can clean the house really good"

Now I dont mind helping out and doing my share. But I'm not gonna take a day off so that I can clean the house. Hell I'd rather have gone to work.

In any event. she came home "I thought you were going to clean the house like I "asked " you too

Dunno bout you guys but "Asking" to me sounds a bit nicer. And has the word "please" in it.

so she's moaning and groaning about this "sink full of dishes!" and how I could have at least done the "Sink full of dishes"

Sink full of dishes= 2 forks and a coffee cup

SaburoS · « **Reply #35 on:** August 27, 2005, 06:01:09 AM »

False.

lazs2 · « **Reply #36 on:** August 27, 2005, 08:35:45 AM »

so star... japan today is a real melting pot eh?

lazs

Hangtime · « **Reply #37 on:** August 27, 2005, 12:48:51 PM »

It's part of of a womans DNA. Even my female cats bittch at me when I'm doing nothing.

Get this.. my girlfriend stops by. I'm typing to you guys on the o'club. it's 11:00pm. She drops her purse by the door (where i always trip on it) heads for the kitchen, makes herself (and not me) a drink and comes back inta the living room and starts moving stuff on the coffee table. My stuff. I stop breifly, eyball her & raise an eyebrow, move the stuff back to where it was, go back to typing.

She then starts with: "look at this place. when's the last time you cleaned off this coffee table. and every single light is on in this place. don't you ever turn off a light when you leave a room? the ice bucket is empty. how come you never refill the ice cube trays. you could at least .."

at this point, i've stood up, gently cupped her elbow with my hand to get her up and we're walking towards the door.

."what?..."

I've opened the door, releived her of her (my) drink, replaced it with her purse and said... "I'm not domesicated. I'm not domesticatable. Which is why I live alone. I leave lights on because I pay the bills, I clean when I feel like it and refill the ice cube trays never because I don't use ice in my drinks, and we're both too old to have to suffer with PMS. g'night!"

She came back an hour later wearing an overcoat and nothing else. I may have won a victory for all mankind. Or, she just figured out that bittching at me is not how to get positive attention.

I did refill the ice bucket in the morning and emptied the ash tray in the living room. Call it the inventive hump rewards program.

StarOfAfrica2 · « **Reply #38 on:** August 27, 2005, 01:41:25 PM »

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Originally posted by lazs2
so star... japan today is a real melting pot eh?

lazs

No. Matter of fact, in some respects, a good sized portion of the Japanese population is just downright weird.

That said, they are mostly nice people, I was just rebutting your comment that they look down on us as inferior, when thats the furthest thing from true.

Now Hawaii...........if you want to see a real melting pot, come visit.

stantond · « **Reply #39 on:** August 27, 2005, 06:17:42 PM »

I think Hangtime may be onto something. Maybe what women who complain really want is more attention when they see their spouse lying around? Here is something to try as an experiment.

If you really are interested in not being active (i.e. really want to watch TV, etc), try being intimate with her. Maybe that is the reason she is grumpy to begin with? Of course if that idea is not appealing at the moment, there is always saying yes and then ignoring her. The latter approach must be used with caution.

Regards,

Malta

Disclaimer: I make no claim to understand women, what they want, what their motives are, or why they behave the way they do.

lazs2 · « **Reply #40 on:** August 28, 2005, 09:10:57 AM »

star... so.. At one time they did but now they don't? What would you attrribute this change of attitude to? Them being less powerful today? Sorry... wouldn't want any jap to be in charge with power over me. I don't really trust their new found love of forieners. I seen their idea of rule over defeated nations... I have no reason to believe things have changed much.

lazs

DREDIOCK · « **Reply #41 on:** August 28, 2005, 11:48:50 AM »

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Originally posted by Hangtime

at this point, i've stood up, gently cupped her elbow with my hand to get her up and we're walking towards the door.

."what?..."

I've opened the door, releived her of her (my) drink, replaced it with her purse and said... "I'm not domesicated. I'm not domesticatable. Which is why I live alone. I leave lights on because I pay the bills, I clean when I feel like it and refill the ice cube trays never because I don't use ice in my drinks, and we're both too old to have to suffer with PMS. g'night!"

She came back an hour later wearing an overcoat and nothing else. I may have won a victory for all mankind. Or, she just figured out that bittching at me is not how to get positive attention.

I did refill the ice bucket in the morning and emptied the ash tray in the living room. Call it the inventive hump rewards program.

Women are astounding creatures. They push and push and push. Then when you've finally reached the point where enough is enough and toss them. they either have two reactions. They leave, never to return. or they start doing backflips to make it up to you.
There is no inbetween.

parker00 · « **Reply #42 on:** August 28, 2005, 01:15:37 PM »

I'd have to say false for all women, but true for most. The wife doesn't give me a list or anything like that but if i spend too much time playing games or sitting on the couch she gets a little moody.