I will try not to pound my chest while being constructive...here goes.
Bluekitty I will asume you drive a car. If you are moving down the highway at 70mph and a car moves into you lane from the opposite side of traffic...do you:
A. Swerve to miss the car and avoid almost certain death?
B. Say this guy shouldnt be on my side of the road "Ill show him" and stay in the lane and ram him?
My guess would be A just like most people. If your answer is B then there is no need to read further, you will soon be removed from the gene pool.
So assuming your answer was A, then what is different about the scenario you gave. If a truck is coming your way turn. The ack is the truck, stay alive and fight the guy when he comes out or find another target.
You wanted a fight that the other wasnt willing to give. He may have been bingo ammo or fuel and just wanted to go home. He might have been trying to drag you low and render you usless to your team. Maybe he was just a punk who didnt want to fight. All are possible.
From my limited two years of experience in the event it is a very RARE occurance to have someone run to ack. Most of your fights are very fast and unpredictable. Each side is working together to kill the enemy with twisting turns and zooming attacks. If your SA is low then you will die often in FSO. Keep you head on a swivel and get the mission done.
This is not the place to come for air quake or anything close. You may fly for an hour or more before finding a fight and then have it last 3 minutes and your on your way home. Then you may find yourself in a life or death struggle for over an hour. It just depends on the event and what your squads scheduled duty is.
One thing for certain in FSO, all the problems you have in the MA are alot less problematic here. The main you can find daily people running to ack, HOing, whining... you know what the rest are. You have all this stuff in FSO also, just MUCH less of it.
Again sorry if your experience was bad, just try and stick it out for a few more. You know you better than anyone here, If FSO is not for you then find something else to amuse you. Im sure its not for everyone, else the entire main would be here.
