Part of the problem... is that it takes awhile before you recognize some peoples ideas of 'fun'. For some, their idea of 'fun' is to be as abrasive as possible and see the reaction. Others are trolls, looking to stir up 'a little action' with some name calling, incenuation, and outright disrespectful offesive remarks. Getting a reaction is what it's all about!
The added banter by the peanut gallery can be unsettling. Thinking someone is 'all that' because they can play a game better than you is ... well... absurd! But that does come off in this BBS. I think the interaction on this BBS might make an interesting physiological study!
Unfortunately, when you don't recognize these types for what they are doing, it can be upsetting. Once you recognize them, they are quite laughable. However, for someone just starting the game, recognizing who and what these 'names' are about is almost impossible. There are some real buttheads on this BBS, no doubt. But, the AH BBS has no monopoly on them.
More 'spirited' conversation is tolerated on this BBS than most. However, taken in the right (not so serious) light it is all in fun!
Regards,
Malta