Yep that's what I said in my replies to the other riot threads. That's just the way they are.
Like I said I don't consider myself french to begin with. I stopped trying to have any effect beyond close friends because they just won't have it.. and after a while I didn't feel any belonging to this place.
I do run into people who really are receptive to my outsider perspective, but they're few and far between so I don't go out of my way to find them.
I'm done here and it's time for me to think for myself. I don't have any roots here anymore, the best thing I can do as far as I can tell is grow bark and branches in the US.