How many experience enough lag when the ping numbers look good to have ping sounds 1-2 seconds while in the tower after getting shot down?  How many can 'see' the lag in the bullets as they hit the ground after you have fired?  I am seeing much more lag than I ever have before with good ping times (45-69ms), netstat showing no big variance, but seeing the effects in gunnery.
Anyone have a clue what could be causing this and if there is any tools to quantify what I am seeing?  Just to catagorize what is going on would be a step towards progress.  I though this might be my machine, so steps have been taken to improve performance.  I even removed Norton Anitvirus (which seemed to help film startup lag).  Fps is always above 30 (and often higher) when I see this.  I have lots of what I am seeing on film.  I have another machine to try, so I will do that soon.  
Unless this is spyware (which I don't think it is and I run MS anti-spyware) I am stumped.  Any suggestions are appreciated.
Malta