Thanks StSanta
Coming from a European, I'll take your post as a compliment I don't believe when they wrote the constitution they had any idea of the welfare program we now have in the states.Don't think they envisioned nukes either. Do know they had lofty goals about equality, opportunity and freedom.
What's wrong with working for a living? Too many people here laying around looking for the government to give them everything. The democrats only have to provide the illusion that the republicans are going to take away their free ride and whoa, they jump up and vote against it. Keeping the slick willie's in office.Hm, must me fewer than here, with our extensive welfare system. And, oddly enough, the majority of voters here are middle class people, not welfare ones. All is good if ya can support yerself, ain't much dignity in being a burden to others. Ain't much future in it either.
Just for the record, I've been married since I was 19 (to the same wonderful woman)(1979). I've been a father since
I was 19 (two fantastic sons).Well, congrats
. I'm single, and staying so hating the compromises that comes with relationships. Kids? My brother has some, so some of our shared dna has already been passed, no need for me to hurry
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Hey guess what, I've been working full time since I was 19. I was raising a family on $3.10 an hour when I was 19 when minimum wage was $2.25. Working 55 to 70 hrs a week to provide for the family.
I was fortunate to be in a line of work that provided massive amounts of overtime. No hand outs. No government assistance. I'm now a computer programmer for a large multimedia firm (about to become even larger . So if I can do it, I wonder why most of the others can't. One word - LAZY. The government has made it too darn easy. Almost a drug for some. And when the republicans try to get these people to work, we're mean spirited.Well, you might have been fortunate as you put it yourself. You might also have more stamina and dedication and belief in yourself than others do. We're all different, and I do not expect normal people to perform like me, for better or worse. However, I do believe that saying the reason they're on the bum side of life is because they're lazy is overly simplistic - there ae tons of factors involved and a good number of thesis's done on it from social science people.
For instance, income inequality is closely linked to crime rate, which of course is directly linked to your personal safety and that of your loved ones.
The democrats are good in the way they provide a balance to the other extreme. I just can't see how any hard working, God fearing US citizen can buy into their agenda though.Well, I can see how one can be a republican, and I can see why one can be a democrat. Don't know about god fearing though, as this concept has always amused me a bit, til things turn bad and people start offing each other over it.
As for the Boy Scouts, it's an organization with rules. Follow them or don't join. It's not like they've changed them or
anything, pretty black and white.Aye, but it's just that these dudes are role model for yer kids, and what they're teaching is exclusion and intolerance in a certain way. "We want you if you're straight and Christian" can sound awfully a lot like "we want you if you're pure blooded white and believes in Chtuhlu" or some other rather abritrary form discriminating.
I say let them have their rules, but good role models, they ain't, and good for teaching kids tolerance, they ain't either.
As for homosexuals, nothing against them in their own place. Don't believe they should be leaders in the Boy Scouts just like I don't think heterosexual men should be leaders in the Girl Scouts. I have had many gay friends and associates. I'm fine with it as long as they don't flaunt it or try to pass it off as an alternative lifestyle to our youth.Ah, you fear some kind of sexual abuse? That would be a valid concern, but pedophiles and sex criminals aren't really in the same category as homosexuals I think.
Personally, I mind as much of them flaunting their sexual preference as I mind heterosexuals doing it - i.e nothing. I don't think of it as an alternative lifestyle - they seem to have little choice. And life as a homosexual sure seems a lot harder with all the prejudices around. Somehow I doubt that homosexuality is a conscious choice, just as I doubt I consciously have chosen to be straight. Am damned happy I am, as all men are ugly, and some women ain't
. Homosexuality can be found in other animal species as well, and is nothing really unusual.
And who cares who the hell you sleep with and how? That's how I see it. I'm more tired of hearing the stories my hetereo friends (girls and boys) tell me than I am of hearing about the love lives of one of my gay friends.
So, I don't advocate gay rights, as they should just be the same as everyone else's. I don't advocate an alternative life style, as it ain't. It's just sexual preference. What I do advocate is tolerance towards it; or rather, not making a big fuzz about such a minor thing. Same thing about cults or religions (same thing to me
). Build a church, build a mosque, bow to whatever deity you wish as long as you don't force it down my throat or try to make it into law.
Oh, and those %&/%/¤% church bells early Sunday mornings are T&/%¤&¤& irritating - there you are, a nice hangover, tired and weary, and what happens? DING DING DING.
Somehow, methinks the Christians do it just to haunt me
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StSanta,thanks again for your reponse and please don't take this personal as I do enjoy the deliberation.Ah, I won't, as long as you don't either. I like conversations too
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StSanta
JG54 "Grünherz"
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