Heya Kieren
Here goes the next round
Am snipping a lot to keep text size down; otherwise I on't be able to post the message.
<regarding deathbed repention etc>
For most of us, dying takes more than three or four seconds. This would leave ample time to truly regret all the bad things done in life, and I mean truly regret It's a bit unfair I think, but hey, that's just my view on a specific religious belief.
<self reliance>
Yep. Sort of like a human master that tells you what to do. Removes your self reliance and places you in a dependancy situation.
<god testing us>
We all are subjects to hardships, no doubt about it. Some can be overcome, some cannot. Outrunning an avalanche wearing nothing but climbing crampons would be a good example of an "act of god" that will overpower you. Ain't no arguin' with the laws of physics.
With self reliance, I do not mean "asocial behaviour". I mean relying on the self to provide to as large an extent as humanly possible. I see far too mahy "loving" couples where the interdependency has gone so far as to quell and starve the relationship. It seems, that the relationship with god that Christians have might approach this situation; my way or the highway, with one part being utterly out of control. It is akin to one part putting up some unreasonable demands and then blaming the other part for not fulfilling them.
<god giving us diseases>
God created all living and dead things, including hostile microbes such as bacteria and virus. He even created an anomaly where your own body cells reproduce in a strange way; cancer. Unless you can give me a compelling reason such as "only unrepenting sinners get cancer", I'd say "yes".
I mean, sure, let him be harsh. But these diseases are beyond harsh; they're cruel.
<causes disasters>
This line of argument would suggest that natural disasters only happens to disbelievers or unrepenting sinners. There is overwhelming evidence that it's not so.
Anything that will harm me or my loved ones is evil. That includes natural disasters and disease.
<god the mold of the parent>
He couldda removed some of the more painful random things here in life, as discussed above. And I am not sure he does much to keep us close to him; he puts up a book of rules that are unbending, made us ALL sinners because of the mistakes of others (i.e blaming us for something we had nothing to do) and refuse to discuss rationally alternatives to his rules
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I for one would like to have a chat with god about some of his rules. I can talk to MY parents about the rules; good parents allow interaction, both ways
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<god giving us choices>
He puts up a loaded choice. I am not sure how one can interpret it in another way. I am wondering about free will; how do you personally think it somehow evades causality?
<suffer the consequences of our actions>
Mm, it sounds reasonable. But these acts of God also condemn a good deal of people to eternity in hell; say a man that would live to be 80 had nothing happened; he would have time to seek out his spiritual life. Unfortunately, he was killed age 25 as an earthqukae tipped his house on him. No chance to repent; eternity in hell. the greater purpose is also withheld from man. havin seen suffering people through working on hospitals, I must conclude that a god that allows so great pains is not a good god, but an evil one. I've seen people in so bad shape it makes your eyes tear up. An omnibenevolent god would not allow it to happen.
<friend with cancer>
Depending on the type of cancer, one can live a rather worthy lives up until the last month or so. Other diseases do not allow a gracious exit from life. I am saddened that you've lost a friend who by your description must have been a great man; and I am glad he faced his hardships with his head hold up high. Non theists can, and do, do this as well; I don't think faith is needed to fight hardships.
<god not casting him out>
Hm, well, it seems to come down to a greater plan, yet we have no evidence of this, none whatosever. it is, for me, a very unsatisfying way of explaining evil. one that can be used to justify everything, including the Holocaust. If osomeone were to say your purpose in life is to be an example and they'd then proceed to, in the name of a greater purpose, kill your family and torture you, perhaps you'd question this higher purpose.
<us choosing a life away from god>
It's a loaded choice. Obedience, and heaven. Questoining, and hell.
<regarding cheeck vs tooth>
Crime is social interaction. Everything we have between humans is social interaction.
That rule is suggesting that all laws are god made; otherwise it would be impossible to apply one and not the other. Laws clearly differ from nation to nation.
<snip gerbil story>
Once again, it is the argument of ignorance; a logical fallacy whereupon one tries to validate ones argument by referring to the unknown - "we do not know that there aren't UFO's, therefore they exist".
I cannot help but to reject it because of the loose logical foundation. Sorry :/.
<our ignorance as to the purpose of things>
But how can you know? Because he said so? With carrots, we learned why as our knowledge expanded. I see no reason to artificially limit ourselves, or to suggest that some things are unknowable; science has been around in its present for for only a few hundred years, yet have transformed society more than all religions combined. Eradicated diseases, increased life span, you name it.
Perhaps god WANTS us to find the answer? The very nature of god means we have to second guess a lot, when issues aren't covered by the bible. Otherwise we have to use bible passages out of context and that's no good.
There are too many questions, and too few answers when it comes to religion. Every answer it provides ineviatbly leads to three new questions. We're told not to ask them as a matter of faith. Combine this with psychological and secular explanation to the religion phenomenon and I find it hard to accept as the truth. There simply are too many contraindicators.
Then again, I am a human lacking faith. I think I am unable to have faith; I want answers, and if I do not get them, I will seek them and question the validity of a claim until I get them. Or take a neutral position, such as "I don't know, and that means I cannot support either claim".
And that seems to be the big difference between me and you; you're a man of faith and I am not.
It's cool that we still can get along and discuss civilly, don't ya think
Thanks for taking your time explaining your position to me; you've given me some insight into your position and I am sure as I process it in my brain over the next few days, I will be able to understand your position much better.
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Baron Claus "StSanta" Von Ribbentroppen
9./JG 54 "Grünherz"
"I don't necessarily agree with everything I think." - A. Eldritch