I had the weirdest moment on the way to work the other day.
so with my new job I ride the bus to work. I hate it, but with pain levels and medication driving home would be pretty stupid, so I take the bus.
part of my condition is a perpetual sea-sickness so standing on the bus is a very bad thing. luckily they have seats at the front that are reserved for people who are older or have limitations. anyone can use them but if you aren't in need of them you are supposed to give them up if someone who is shows up.
I make my transfer and the bus is packed. all seats full and 5 or 6 people standing.
so I look at the reserved seats, also full. all older people, a women with 2 kids on her lap, and a young black kid about 17 yrs old.
I ask the kid for his seat, explain the situation and that I need the reserved seat, and apologized for putting him out (it still feels odd asking people for special treatment, even if I do need it from time to time).
it was no problem once he understood what I was saying, he gives up the seat and says "no problem."
just as I thank him and take the seat, the driver makes another stop. "we're taking on more passengers. all you people standing need to move to the back of the bus."
it was a perfectly normal series of unimportant events. but just looking at the kid and the people around us, you could tell that it hit everybody the same way.
I'm not even sure why I'm posting about it. it was a real 'nothing moment' but it's still kinda bugging me.