Ok,
I for one have seen more than enough "nice ram", "he hit me and I took the damage", "this collison model is bs" and so on. Ok does anyone for real try to collide with anyone??? I would assume no, because I don't hear/read anyone braggin on thier ramming skills. For real guys, if you're getting too close, just turn away. I think adding the text, "player has collided with you", was a bad idea because it just opened up a new can of excuses for people to use. Almost everytime I got the "you have collided" message, I know it was my mistake for trying to knive fight too close, or I was going too fast, basically I amit to myself that I screwed up.
just my 2-cents