Originally posted by Ripsnort
Romans felt the same way about "Games" they played. Gladiators were allowed, even forced to, kill each other for entertainment purposes of the crowds. How does it feel to teach your children "its okay to destroy your body (using 'roids) in order to entertain the masses and make millions...and oh, by the way, you'll most likely die at a young age."
I don't teach my children that, so I don't know how that feels. (I know you weren't directing that at anyone per say Rip, but I wanted to use it to illustrate my feelings below).
From the personal responsibility aspect, I will not tell my children that. I will also not blame Barry Bonds if my child wants to do steriods. I will place the blame squarely on him for his actions and until he is 18 on myself for not being the the parental role model I want to be.
I know this, my boys will be exposed to this when they reach high school (or maybe before, although I really shudder at that) and I am, and intend to, stay involved enough in their lives, that if they do bow to peer pressure, and I catch it, that, as long as they live as a dependent of mine, I will do what I can to put a stop to it (including making sure any adults in a coaching role with minors who facilitate this will be exposed).
I've already seen examples of parents who put their kids on growth hormones at elementary school age (under the guise of treating some other malady). I've seen a kid go from average to well above average in height and bulk from a fall season to a spring season. I won't blame Barry Bonds or society or any of that. The blame rests squarely on the parent who makes that decision for that child. Those aren't societal choices, those are individual choices. If you haven't seen it yourself Rip, I bet you will at some point as well with your boys' activities.
People do incredibley stupid things for fame and money (of course that applies to more than sports). That will never stop. I hope to be a good enough teacher to my boys to show how stupid things are not worth the fame and money. Easier said than done, I know, but what about raising kids isn't?