Originally posted by phookat
dmf-- I thought we were having a discussion but you seem to have ignored pretty much everything in my post. Take a look, might be something there worth thinking about...or maybe not I guess. Anyway, you say "he might have a right since she totally lied to him"...well, really, I think "might" is far too weak a term. He *definitely* should have this right since she absolutely defrauded him. He doesn't have this right and he's fighting to get it. What sucks about this is that he is being absolutely lambasted in the press, both lib and con. "Deadbeat dad" spin on everything. More evidence of mindless sensationalist journalism.
On the abortion point...once again, this is not about abortion, or forcing abortions. Even if abortions were totally banned, the issue of fair delegation of responsibility would remain, which is what this case is about. On a side note though...I have noticed that, when the "every sperm is sacred" conundrum is brought up, the extreme pro-lifers fall strangely silent.
On the religious issue... yes that notion is very religious and again no there's nothing wrong with that. A "less religious" person might believe that God created the universe, flipped the On switch, and then let it run without any interference. The idea that God gives personalized individual gifts to 6 billion people in this generation alone (as well as 100 billion individual gifts to other animals, and 500 quingigillion individual gifts to bacteria) is about as religious as it gets.
Ok I'll give men that one, if a woman defrauds a man by saying theres no way she can get pregnant then yea, let the man have the right to say yea or nay.
As far as the religious aspect, I couldn't care less about that, I gave up on God and religion 2 years ago.
I read your post pookat, I just didn't reply to it cause if I do I'm gonna open a whole new can or worms for the fishermen on this thread.
I really think that "some" men want the rights just so they won't have to support the child, I kow if my ex had the chance thats what he'd do.
I'm not telling sombody I can't "get pregnant right now" cause even on the pill, a woman can get pegnant on the pill.
I don't need walfare to support my daughter, I make enough money to get by without leaching off society, and I don't have any respect for women who lie to men or leach off welfare cause they can.