Welcome to Aces High, Starman
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How long it takes you to "hold your own" in a fight very much depends on your experience (in other sims), the time you can dedicate to flying, practicing, reading up. Also depends a bit what you fly and who you fly with. As a general rule i would count weeks, not hours/days.
The next thing is what you measure yourself against. Youll *always* find people that can easily beat you... but after a while youll notice youll be able to do the beating at times.
And having fun is not a matter of skill anyway. Dont hang yourself up on skill, rank, scores whatever. Enjoy yourself.
I look at it this way: If i meet a better pilot (read: if im sent to tower before i realised whats happened) i see it as a learning opportunity, not as a lost fight.
Now for training: IMHO fun is the best teacher. Find a mix of reading, practicing, training sessions, winging/observing, analysing films and just flying that you enjoy. Training Arena/Trainer Corps is *always* a good place to start. To set up a session, contact them at
trainers@hitechcreations.com.
Another thing id recommend, is try sticking to one plane for a while. Start getting a feel for it, learn its advantages and limits.
Sodas page is a good place to get an overview over a plane, not only the one youre flying, but also the one your *opponent* is flying. Helps knowing his weak spots
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Also, start filming your engagements. In game, press ALT R to start recording (little red R in the upper left corner of your screen). This will dump an film##.ahf file into your HTC/Aces High II/films folder. You can view those films with the AH Film viewer. START > PROGRAMS > Aces High II > Film Viewer, then open the film. (after the first time running its automatically associated with the .ahf file extension and you can simply double click the film to view it).
I usually watch the films in external, with use recorded views, trails and icons checked. That way youll be able to see what your opponent did, and why what you did worked or didnt work. You can also "jump" into your opponents plane by double clicking his name on the right hand side list.
Feel free to call me when you see me online. Ill wing with you anytime, if you like.
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