You claim to not be brainwashed, but are spouting off all the "pro's" of the EU after reading a single book? Don't let yourself be swayed so easily.
Power is a loose term. You're right, when push comes to shove, power does rest solely on the military and the willingness to use it. But there are other types of power that at least can be exercised before the shoving starts.
Entirely wrong. Power is not a loose term at all. All the other things that you consider as "Power" do not even hold a candle to military power or the things that can be done with it.
"Market Power", as you can see worldwide, is the strongest with those countries that have the strongest militaries. I'll let you decide whether or not this is a coincidence.
"Political Power" can only be used when the promise of military power is behind it. How can we tell the middle east what to do if there is no promise of extreme retribution upon failure? This is where the EU, the UN, and NATO fail.
Are they a fractured Union currently? Yep. Is there a possibility that this fracturing will continue? Of course. However, I think it would be foolish to automatically assume it will fall apart. I think it's equally foolish to just dismiss them as pretenders to the crown. They are an educated, numerous people with western views (slightly different then ours), I don't see how the argument could be made that they can't accomplish just about anything they decide to do, just like us.
Any country of decent size will fall apart without a decently strong central government.
If you want to really read some interesting history, read up on the Confederate States of America. This government has been in the US two times. And both times it failed for the same reasons. Without a strong central government binding everything together, the states will quarrel and fall apart.
Now, take a wild guess why I brought this up. Take a wild guess as to the structure of the European Union.
The European Union **WILL** fall apart unless some strong central government takes over. But then, this would not be a league of nations, but an entirely new nation onto itself.
Mark my word. The EU will fail in one of two ways. Over a span of about 6-7 years they will bicker with eachother so much that they will break the bonds that "Unite" them.
Or the EU will be challenged militarily. And because (as we have already covered) the EU has no military power, they will fall apart within days.