Oh brother...get over it. You're really that retardedly upset by anything homosexual that you get all huffy and have to make a ranting post about it? The Sopranos has been loaded with stuff that has nothing to do with "ganstering", but is rather just part of normal life, that the characters deal with in their way, and that's just part of what makes the show interesting.
But clearly, since it's "the gay!!! OH NO!!!", the writers/producers/directors are just pandering and trying to draw in that Brokeback Mountain money. Yeah, that, or it's a continuation of this subplot that started last season...two years ago.