Dok, while I can sympathize with your situation (I really can), and applaud your effort to apologize, I also have to laugh at what the Dud did.
All too many threads on this BB are full of vile and venom. It is refreshing to see some humor (and not at the expense of anyone) along with a classy apology.
Heck, I would be just a quick to have made that type of reponse. I do have a warped sense of humor. And it would have caugh me off gaurd to have it taken personally by someone. Especially in light of the classy thing being done.
For what its worth Dok. I think you are being a bit harsh. And this coming from someone who gets accused of being harsh all the time (thought I would say it before someone else did).
Now, maybe having humor tossed in like this is not your cup of tea. That's ok too. Now that I know, I will certainly be more mindful of it. Maybe the Dud will too.