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Offline nirvana

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« on: May 29, 2006, 11:53:04 AM »
The past week of relaxation brought to mind how much I truly dislike working at Linens N Things.  I've been through this before and I probably shouldn't complain at all but here goes.

While the people I work with are nice and good people, I can't stand my boss.  I know it's part of being an adult, dealing with situations like that, especially with your boss, but I just don't think he knows what he's doing.  Clearly he's the store general manager for a reason but the past month or so we have lost quit a few people, we have maybe 10-15 people on the payroll yet we have 5 sections that each associate is in charge in.  That works out to 2 people per department, the other 5 being cashiers.

Well heck I get paid $7 an hour but it's also a 45 minute drive.  That drive is even longer when your coming home late at night after a day of school and going to school the next day.  So that extra $1.50 or whatever it is above minimum wage just flows directly into the gas tank anyway.

Then i'm going to work for my step dad this summer in his auto shop, which is where i see my career, not in selling toaster ovens and credit cards.  That means i'd rather spend a 10 hour day in the heat in the auto shop then the air conditioned store for 8 hours.  I know they are going to want me to work 40 hours a week this summer and that is not good with me.  working 7 days a week, it's just insane to think about, I know some people do it, but what do it when you don't have to.

If I don't flat out give my 2 weeks notice I plan on setting a 15 hour ceiling or else i'm gone, no it's not good but jeez, I don't want to live at work.  All my friends are just like whatever because they haven't been through quitting a job much less even having a real job.  It's just not even exciting to me anymore, i'm just burned out with unboxing, putting it on the shelf, labeling, making a display etc etc.  The repetition is just so boring and murderous.

Any advice is appreciated, thanks.
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Offline xrtoronto

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« Reply #1 on: May 29, 2006, 11:58:27 AM »


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« Reply #2 on: May 29, 2006, 12:09:03 PM »
Sounds like you've already made your decision.  When the time comes, give your two week notice and be professional about it...no reason to burn any bridges.
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« Reply #3 on: May 29, 2006, 12:09:35 PM »
The reason it's called 'work' is all the other 4 letter cuss words were already taken.

Real question time... what do you want to do for 'work' 5 years from now? Spin wrenches? As a former mechanic and auto service professional, I can assure you that that field indeed is 'work' and all the connotations of 'hard' apply.

That's not to say it ain't rewarding, or interesting or challenging.

Yer one of the brightest kids I've 'met'.. don't under estimate your worth and capabilities. And for cripes sake, enjoy being a 'kid' for as long as you can. I would advise against anything longer in your final summers as a 'kid' a 'work week' beyond 20-25 hours.

I'd also advise diviersity of experience.. you've learned what 'retail sales' is all about.. move on to a new experience.

G'luck, kid. ;)
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« Reply #4 on: May 29, 2006, 12:14:10 PM »
My advice is:

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Yer gonna be working the rest of yer natural days.

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« Reply #5 on: May 29, 2006, 12:24:11 PM »
Work 3 days a week like I did last yeah, 3 days a week, 30 hours a week, no biggie, but i'm trying to do what you guys are talking about in not working every single day of the week.  I'm not a total workaholic, but i'd rather have burned transmission fluid dripping on me then listening to another speech about how selling credit cards is so important.:rolleyes:
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« Reply #6 on: May 29, 2006, 12:48:16 PM »
Do a simple analysis and then make a decision. By all means be professional about it if you decide to leave the store.

Life is all about decisions. Some like this are merely matters of convenience, others will have a lasting impact on the rest of your life. Use this one as a means to learn about them and see what happens. No matter what, it is not the focal point of the rest of your life. The impact either way is likely to be minimal.
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« Reply #7 on: May 29, 2006, 12:57:07 PM »
Get fired for slacking off and file for unemployment.  That way you get free money for your entire summer and all you have to do to keep getting paid is occasionally apply for jobs you're not qualified for to "prove" that you're looking for work.

All that money is going to go to SOMEONE, so you may as well grab what you can now.  You're sure as heck going to pay it back in taxes in the future, so it's not even unethical.  The govt takes part of your salary to give to other people who don't or won't work, so it's only fair to get some of it back by also sitting around and not working.  After all, paying people who aren't working is the whole purpose of the system, so be a team player and sign up before you have real bills to pay.

Yea, I know someone who did this, fairly successfully as I recall.
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« Reply #8 on: May 29, 2006, 03:45:30 PM »
Go drive pizza for the summer!

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« Reply #9 on: May 29, 2006, 03:51:55 PM »
Learn from it.  A boss who doesn't know what he's doing? You'll meet quite a few of those in your lifetime. They always outnumber the good bosses. In truth all he probably had to do to become boss of a store was to lack the imagination or ability to move on or up.

The other lesson to learn is that might be your future, if you are not careful. It's easy to fall into a screamingly dull life by simply taking the comfortable route. Actually even if you try hard to avoid it sometimes you can still end up in the dull, boring job.  As is happening to me at the moment. But at least it encourages me to get the lead out and improve myself.

If you think the repitition is bad now, imagine something like it for years and years and years.  

So don't be in any hurry to make rash decisions. I work with a guy who went to college to study Physics of all things. Not much work in that field where he lives. But he has worked in shops and factories, construction, farmwork, bars etc. He has travelled all over and is now working to save money for a return trip to Australia. He's 24 and in no hurry to settle down. Think about it, at sixteen you could have 8 years of experiences ahead of you and still be young enough to figure out what you want out of life.

So walk away now, it's not fun anymore, try something else. There's plenty of time to be hard working and sensible when you marry and have kids. Enjoy your life.

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« Reply #10 on: May 29, 2006, 04:07:03 PM »
has been my experience that they never make a good worker manager because then they lose a good worker, so they make a poor worker  manager because the poor worker can't do any thing else.


boss 1" joe is slow and has too many comebacks, but he's a nice guy with a family, i don't want to fire him"

boss 2 " lets make him a manager"

boss 1 " good idea"

boss 2 "thats why we are management, we make good decisions""

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« Reply #11 on: May 29, 2006, 07:51:05 PM »
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Get fired for slacking off and file for unemployment.  That way you get free money for your entire summer and all you have to do to keep getting paid is occasionally apply for jobs you're not qualified for to "prove" that you're looking for work.

All that money is going to go to SOMEONE, so you may as well grab what you can now.  You're sure as heck going to pay it back in taxes in the future, so it's not even unethical.  The govt takes part of your salary to give to other people who don't or won't work, so it's only fair to get some of it back by also sitting around and not working.  After all, paying people who aren't working is the whole purpose of the system, so be a team player and sign up before you have real bills to pay.

Yea, I know someone who did this, fairly successfully as I recall.


:rofl No, I think i'll skip that, I did think about the unemployment pay though, but i'm not an bellybutton like that, having others pay for me to sit around all day.  It's kind of strange to have your future pretty figured out by the time you're a sophomore in high school:(
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« Reply #12 on: May 29, 2006, 07:59:09 PM »
Dont keep ore stay in a job your miserable in.

Try to find something you actually enjoy doing or at least get satisfaction from.

barring that in the meantime take the job you find the most tolerable with the best pay.

Dont settle on anying less unless you have no other options.
then dont ever ever be afraid to look for and find something better.

Your young. get a taste of as many things as you can and find out what YOU like to do.
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« Reply #13 on: May 30, 2006, 12:31:05 AM »
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It's kind of strange to have your future pretty figured out by the time you're a sophomore in high school:(

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« Reply #14 on: May 30, 2006, 01:14:29 AM »
10th grade and worrying about a job???? HOLY watermelon BATMAN!!! You are way to young to even think about that kind of stress. Relax, get an outside job. Get a job were you look at girls/guys (yes being pc..lol) all day. Do something thats fun not were your gonna be beat when you get home and not have time to play. My friend you have the rest of your life to worry about a job and how to make ends meet.