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Offline DREDIOCK

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« Reply #30 on: June 10, 2006, 02:17:45 PM »
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I dont need someone that acts like a traditional mother: She can act like a friend and not step on my toes or else she can pack up and leave.

I own half the summerhouse, and when the first thing she does is tell me that we can use the guestrooms/annex (that I/we have had as ours for 31 years) she gets told what the facts are and thats that. She got it and problem is solved. So far today things are going great.

She may think that she has a say in how things are after knowing my father for 3 months, and she is welcome to be a part of his and our life but I would not start telling her what to do in her house so she better not try that with me. I set the standard from the get go and now she knows. Other than this little incident she seems like a lovely lady.


In that case. Place her over your kneee and spank her.

Trust me.
Its what she wants:D
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« Reply #31 on: June 10, 2006, 02:47:40 PM »
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Treat her as your mother would wish you to.
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If your dad wants to find another woman to be with, let him have the happiness of female companionship. However DO NOT let her take the place of your natural mother.
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« Reply #32 on: June 10, 2006, 05:30:14 PM »
don't forget the 'bus' option!
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« Reply #33 on: June 10, 2006, 08:05:29 PM »
Don't think of her as a new mom. She will be your Dad's wife. And she can be a friend.  You an adult now. No need to think of her any other way. I'm dating a great gal that has 5 kids. The oldest is going to be 30 this year. The youngest is 21. There adults. When we get married, I'll be their Mom's husband. That's all it'll be. I don't need to be a Dad to them. Their big people now. I'll just be a friend.
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« Reply #34 on: June 10, 2006, 11:25:49 PM »
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Originally posted by Nilsen
Slow down

First of all its OUR summerhouse, I own half.
The annex has been my sumerhome for 31 years and no 3 month old "friend" of my dad has any tiny weeny right to tell me that im "free to use it when I want"

Seems like some here have the wrong idea. I like that he has met her, but would any of you accept that a person came into your home and started telling YOU what to do in it? She doesnt even live there but visit very often.


Hell, Nils... haven't met the old nag yet that didn't understand a beery in-her-face belch, an industrious ball scratch, a full two-ham aimed moon with apple flash, followed by a cheerful smile and a meaningfuly opened front door.
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« Reply #35 on: June 11, 2006, 03:31:45 AM »
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Don't think of her as a new mom. She will be your Dad's wife. And she can be a friend.  You an adult now. No need to think of her any other way. I'm dating a great gal that has 5 kids. The oldest is going to be 30 this year. The youngest is 21. There adults. When we get married, I'll be their Mom's husband. That's all it'll be. I don't need to be a Dad to them. Their big people now. I'll just be a friend.


wtf wtf wtf again!  :furious :furious :furious

STOP TALKING ABOUT WIFES: NOBODY IS GGETTING MARRIED!!!!  :furious




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« Reply #36 on: June 11, 2006, 05:08:32 AM »
my mum re-married and my father never has.

my mum lives in a small house with her husband, both earning as much as possible to survive, my father is sailing round the globe in the Clipper05/06 boat race, living his dream.



the moral: if you're lucky enough to get divorced, dont send yourself right back to prison, start living life for yourself again. Its not easy when 20 years of your life has been family orientated, but i can tell you for sure my old man would have gone nuts if he didnt find something that he really wanted to do just for himself.
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« Reply #37 on: June 11, 2006, 05:13:02 AM »
sounds great batfink. your dad is lucky
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« Reply #38 on: June 11, 2006, 06:17:54 AM »
is she hot?
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