Just for the record I'm not arguing against what Lazs said, because there's nothing wrong with it. He may be a little less tolerant than me of other people's quirks (in this case anyway), but that doenst make him wrong. It just means he doesnt want to be bothered with wading through someone else's emotional BS. Cant say I blame him either. I'm the same way in alot of respects.
Its just that I am not a person who makes friends easily. Not close friends, the kind that I feel comfortable having at my house or would loan my stuff to, etc. 2 of them happen to be black, and yeah they toss the N bomb around like its nothing. I just ignore it. I've had plenty of opportunity to find out what kind of friends they are, and they've never let me down when I needed them. More than I can say for alot of others. I'm willing to overlook some annoying character flaws, they certainly do for me.