IL2 is just a diffent sort of game.
As it is now,it`ll be focusing more on small squadronsize combat,instead of the nonstop onslaught of the MA.If You like roleplaying,and replaying real missions of real battles of WWII,than IL2 is the game for You.
Furballs won`t be present either because of the engine overheat effects,as it is right now,I`m lucky to finish one fight without damaging my engine.
The Bf109 isn`t the superplane anymore like it was in beta01.Flightmodel,and many other things are being tweaked,and it`s getting a very reallistic feel.The demo isn`t what IL2 will be like,only a teaser.
So just chill out and wait `till it comes out as a finished product before jumping into conclusions.
It`ll be a fun game no matter what.