Hawco: It is realy simple, Almost everyone will on ocasion blow their stack and vent in the heat of the moment. As long as the attitude remains that it is not acceptible behavior, there realy isn't an issue or a problem. Only when people start beliving that they have the right to such behavior do we intervieen.
Just the mere fact of your post tells me a lot about your thoughts on the mater, and it dosn't sound like there is a problem.
HiTech