I was married to that girl once...
Now I have one that respects my hobbies. I do 3 nights a week in AH, 2 afternoons at the R/C Field. and the rest of my time goes to her.
We get along great.
People who can't respect your interests don't belong in your life.
Of course if you are in AH 7 nights a week and won't control yourself, then it is your fault.