It must be an odd business to be in. My business I provide my customer with a service. They pay me. If they are'nt happy the way I plumbed their house, they call another plumber next time.
With flight sims, there really are'nt alot of other "plumbers" to call. The owners can be more of a dictator, on how they operate, more independent and free from thinking "man, I hope I don't lose this account".
That said, the customer can feel somewhat worthless. He is paying for a service, and feels as though even though he is one in thousands, his money should be appreciated. When he feels slighted, his only recourse is to threaten to quit, and when he gets the "See ya!" reply, he gets angry.
Now he starts to dislike the owner, simply because it seems the owner, is'nt as passionate about the customer's patronage, as the customer is about the owner's product.
Its an odd relationship. The only thing that would normalize it, is better competition in the flight sim dept, and we all know there is'nt much else of value out there.
We also know we are invisible customers, numbers, and there is no way to have a personal relationship with all of us. As long as the game is fun...more fun than watching Jeopardy and eating Twinkies every night, I will continue to play.