This is nothing new. The "ace" players when on the deck, and know they have no other alternative, will try to force a collision. I view it as part of the game.
It is sounding like more "non-ace", i.e. my category, players have figured this tactic out. Do I like it? No. Does it happen more than I want to see? Yes. Have I used it? Yes.
Don't plan on this changing. There are alternatives to this tactic, but you need to recognize that the other player is trying to force a collision. I prefer to call this a "game feature".
Throttle control, barrel rolls, yo-yo's, "better" gunnery, using cannons, along with slow speed control are all tactics against this "game feature". Of course, getting low and slow then gives you the opportunity to use the collision model offensively. Enjoy.
Regards,
Malta