Most of us don't use that word, but many of you clearly seem to know more blacks (or negroes, in Lazs' case) than I do.
"all blacks this" and "all blacks that." Since you seem to know so many, why not find one of your black friends or people you know, and ask them?
Educated and thoughtful people wouldn't use that word, which is probably why most of the posters here are SO disappointed at not feeling allowed to use it.
The word demeans and denigrates, regardless of who says it. It's not a term of endearment to me, and I think less of someone who uses it.
Maybe it is a double standard form your perspective. I don't believe it is, since it's used as a sign of kinship within certain circles, but an insult when someone not black, or not affiliated with the community that embraces that language, uses it.
It's unfortunate, but not at all surprising, that many of you fail to comprehend the complexity of that argument.
I say, have at it. Exercise free speech, say what you want, I'll bring the popcorn.