Hi Biggles9!
What you NEED in a Joystick:
8-way hatswitch for views
throttle lever
rudder control (twisty or rocker, or separate pedals)
as many buttons as you can get your hands on.
Recommendations depend pretty much on how much money you are willing to spend.
Saitek Evo, Speedlink Black Widow, Thrustmaster Afterburner II are all good sticks in the 20-50 USD price range.
Saitek X45 (rocker rudder) and Saitek X52 (twisty) are good HOTAS for a reasonable 100-130 USD, Saitek Pedals would cost you another 100 or so. I myself fly with a X45 and CH Pedals and am very happy with that.
The best you can get is a CH setup (stick, throttle and pedals). But that will cost you between 350 and 450 USD. Will last practically a lifetime though.
Just for the sheer price of it, id wait on the CH setup, until youre sure you like the flight sim business and are going to stick with it for a while. Besides, with the USB plugs, you can combine the sticks anyway.... i plan on replacing my Saitek stuff one by one with CH in the long run (as it goes out and/or as i can afford it).
Do yourself one favor and stay away from Logitech sticks... they have severe durability problems.
If you do a search for "joystick" in this and the hardware/software forum, im sure youll find a lot more recommendations.
Hope this helps you. Welcome to your new addiction

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