Charon, just because they don't have a kid there, or aren't there themselves, what makes you think they don't have someone there?
Well, we have about 2,284,000 troops in uniform from a population of 300 million for starters. Less than 1 percent of the population, so the basic odds of knowing someone closely are diminished. Also, a study of the all volunteer force conducted in 1997 found that:
These results have been confirmed in recent editions of this report, which portray a socioeconomic composition of enlisted accessions similar to the population as a whole, but with the top quartile of the population underrepresented.(6)I'm from an upper-middle class town, and have a score of buddies and family over there, back from there, or on their way there.
Where I grew up, people had swimming pools in their houses and lived across the street from Chicago Bears and Chicago Bulls pro athletes. Certainly the top quartile of the population, perhaps the top 2-3 percent for that matter. We lived on "the other side of the tracks"
but I can assure you that the concept of military service was alien, and something "other people did." I can count on less than two hands worth of fingers the number of people from my graduating class of 600+ who served -- officers types included. While that is close to the total percentage of military service in general, I can say that most of those who served were hardly from the more well off families in the community. College rates were 98 percent.
The idea that most Americans have a personal connection to the conflict beyond the national debt just doesn't work for me. Statistically or in the reality that: "The guy I work with -- Bob -- well, his nephew is in Iraq..." has any true significance.
Anecdotally, I can name a dozen people off the top of my head now who not only don't have a relative in Iraq, but don't know anybody who does. Aside from people on this board I have to go to the realative in-law of a friend myself (who is actually a newly minted Navy Seal). And, unless it's your family, or your closest firends having a "connection" to the war is hardly all that personal a deal.
That's why I have favored the draft. Needed for manpower, better soldiers than the critics would claim if properly trained and led (WW2 and Vietnam for that matter) and real skin in the game or at least the chance that you will have real skin in the game for the FULL population if there are no loopholes. With that in mind, supporting the troops takes on new meaning before the first deployment is even considered. Otherwise, its just a great big show on TV and someting to ***** about during the regularly scheduled water cooler debate between the "Dems" and "Repubs."
Charon