Like I mentioned in my FW190 weights thread, the ONLY reason it "flies better" Is because you're some 350lbs lighter. That doesn't mean it's more stable, just lighter. It would be like taking 350lbs from the nose of a spitfire -- sure it'll turn a bit tighter because the weight's been reduced a lot, but it's going to stall out left and right if you pull any real Gs.
Same for the 190. The front and aft tanks are almost identical in size. Draining one will result in the same weight loss as draining the other. Only, if you drain the front you'll flop about, and if you drain the aft you won't flop as much.
Sure, it's your choice, but it's a matter of weight and center of gravity. You chose poorly.
Then again, not everybody bothers pulling many Gs in a 190. Maybe I'm one of the few?