That 8800 768mb is a beastie of a card. Reading the Customer Reviews on NewEgg is quite entertaining. Some there are using those in a SLI config...I just can't imagine the power usage of two of those!
If your system has 2gb in it, if you fire up "taskmgr" (from the Start / Run) line...under "performance", how much "PF Usage" do you have? I'm at 411mb with antivirus, web browser and Yahoo messenger going. When its game time, I shut those all down and get down to 230mb.
When I was buying additional RAM for my system, I bought when there was a RAM sale going on at Best Buy. My machine had 2 512s in it and thought I'd buy two more. But they had 1gb sticks for sale for $89. I couldnt pass that up, I had the spare cash so I bought 4. Gross overkill, having 4gb...but man, once something is loaded up, it runs nicely

So 2g...4gb...depends what you run. I notice games like Joint Operations really soar with the additional RAM (maps load faster, etc) The pre-load stuff in Aces High II zips by for me.