Originally posted by Ghosth
Most days the banter on 200 is worth the 15$ a month the game costs.
However I have seen a lot more trash talk, bad manners, and just plain out and out bruised ego's lately. Not to mention downright disrespectful, and out and out hateful garbage.
The good news is that the AH community does still have the ability to regulate itself. Thank you HTC!
And I'll take this opportunity to add one gentle reminder.
Everyone has more than enough frustration, anger, and unhappiness in their lives. No need to share yours with us. Leave it on your side of the monitor.
On the other hand no one gets as much respect, camaraderie, and good will as we deserve. Feel free to dispense it as needed. Its amazing how a little trickle of respect here & there sent to others will in time turn into a flood of respect coming back your way. Really, give it a try!
Yes we know you just ended up back in the tower. But if it was a worthy foe, step up, send that . And if you just won, what does it cost you to pull some of the sting from his defeat. A quick helps take the sting out of losing and encourages fair play.
It seems everyone forgets 2 simple facts.
A This is an online flight sim, EVERYONE DIES! Yes even HT
B If you just died, you made a mistake, someplace. Somewhere you made a decision that cost you. Rather than whine about it, or blaming someone else, learn from it.
Very well put!
And as if getting sent back to the tower isn't bad enough then you have to go and make an azzzz out of yourself complaining to the one that killed you.
To be honest, i have sent a comment flying, actually slayr1 got me a couple times on the runway,(my fault for upping again) in just a few seconds.
i forget what i typed out to him,but nothing in the form of a compliment.
i figuered out where he was coming from in his 190 and went to meet him, i was so pissed!
i spotted him, almost co-out with him, i was so eagar to kill him i climbed to meet him,and.......back in the tower, its not bad enough i got killed(again) or that i could still hear his cannon firing for a few seconds(really hate that), but after sending a nasty note his way im sure he had a great laugh on me! and to top it all off, i feel bad for the pm i sent him.
So when ya get mad, take a breath, take a minute, hold your tongue, everybody will be better off.