Dang now I have to go off on a rant.
If, and this is a big hypothetical if, that were my daughter and I could prove who did it to her you know who I would blame? ME. That's right me because I didn't teach her before she got in that situation how not to have bad things happen to her. I also blame all the other parents out there who are not raising and controlling their little spawns of satan. And I would come down on the parents of the kids that allowed that to happen on their property.
Will my kids mess up? Absolutely!!! If it was my son doing the shaving he'd have a whole lot more to worry about than a baseball bat in the face from an angry father, a boyfriend, or a judge. He'd be worried about what the repurcussions would be from me and they would not be pretty.
Parents need to get their noses out of the television or whatever the heck they do these days and spend time with their kids teaching them right from wrong. Frankly I probably do a crappy job of it compared to some guys I know that are raising kids and look up to. But I can say with some certainty that if my kids get involved in that kind of bs while they're living in my house it won't be because they weren't warned what could happen and weren't being watched and guided by me.
Now that said once my daughter is of legal age and she decides to get drunk to that point at a party and gets her head shaved I'm just going to look at her and say 'well, what did you expect? I warned you this could happen so now you need to stand on your own two feet and handle the situation.'
Same goes for my boys. Call me from the tank because you got a DUI? Okay.. see you tomorrow and you owe me $150 for bail money.
Of course that's just me