The HO IS easy to avoid. Don't be silly. All you have to do is turn ever so slightly, or apply a slight amount of elevator, and you've denied him his HO.
You've turned it into a deflection shot, which isn't an HO. Now you need to dodge his deflection shot, hehe. That might not be as easy. A high deflection shot is a tough shot to make though, and as such would seem easy to avoid. My experience says it IS easy to avoid. Could I teach someone else to avoid it? Been there, done that- it works just as well for others as well. They also feel it's easy to avoid, and get excited about the "easy kill" when someone tries to HO them.
If you don't both have a shot solution, how can it be an HO?
If he chooses to take his deflection shot, and you can successfully dodge it, he is very often pretty dang easy to get behind. For one, he MUST pull lead to actually hit you, which sets him up for an overshoot. Easy to get behind him on an overshoot? Generally, yes. Can you catch him and kill him? Maybe not.
Two, if he's opening the fight with an HO, it generally says something about his skill level.
From my experience, the folks that open with an HO ARE easy to dodge, easy to get behind, and will OFTEN make another mistake that makes them easy to kill. Even if it's in a F4U ( my only ride) vs spit, hurri, LA, 190, P51, etc...
Seriously, if I die to more than 2-3 HO's a month I'd be surprised. If you counted the ones that dive an at mach 3 to pick me during a 1v1 it might be a bit higher, but I count those as picks more than HO's. Even those are really my own fault anyway, either through an error in SA, judgement, or by taking too long to finish the 1v1.
Ramming? On purpose? LOL! By the very nature of the collision model I seriously doubt that is even possible. I ran an experiment in the DA with Saber, and have film that basically proves that where you see the other guy, IS NOT where he actually is. How can you purposely RAM something that isn't there?
Our experiment was an attempt to land an F4U on top of a B24. We tried to land so that the landing gear would catch over the leading edge of the B24 wing, and hopefully "piggyback". Didn't work, for several reasons.
The main reason was because from the F4U perspective, the F4U wheels were touching the B24's wing (even had the puff of smoke like when touching a runway), they then go "through" the wing though, and the F4U suffers a colloision, and falls apart.
From the B24 pilots perspective, the F4U was still about 50-100 feet BEHIND his stabilizer, and NEVER even came in contact with the B24 at all. The "collision" gave the B24 no damage, as is fair, since he showed no contact.
Any guesses as to the result had the F4U intentionally tried to ram the B24? A dead F4U, and a healthy B24.