Myself and my son, (RMrider) Have flown and rolled countless sorties with all members of the family. The young ones are among the politest and best mannered Knights in range. Two kids playing for the best score they can get, realize how stupidly simple it is to get a very high rank, so decide to see if they reach the top. More dang power to em. That being said however, all parties should realize a certain amount of flak will be directed at them for this. They can take it. Squelch the worst of it and have some fun. Good sticks to have on your side in a brawl.
I'm lucky with my son, as some mentioned above an alternative option to how people approach the game. All my son cares about is knocking red guys down with German Iron, with his Dad and squadmates. He doesn't get flak from other players, but he does get Salutes from players like Platano, who hardly knows him, evertime he lands multiples in his G2 in the LW arena. Something to think about.