Okay I'm going to go off on a rant for a minute here. If I step on any toes or come across as a pompus know it all I'll apologize in advance.
The AVA has become my arena of choice because of the community. Slash, Storch, Oldman, Truekill, Shifty, Bug, and a host of others are guys I like flying with and against.
I have no problem with the code being posted in the MOTD. They are suggestions and people who can not take them for what they are can whine until they are hoarse but they don't get it. Regs should please take time to EXPLAIN IT TO THEM IN THE TEXT BUFFER, PM'S, OR COUNTRY VOX.
Again I will implore the core group to take the 30 seconds to pm a newcomer who is whining on 200 or doing something that's not considered proper aside and tell them what's what.
When Shifty and I met we talked about this subject and I talked to him about forums that I had moderated and admin'd but until tonight I've never let anybody including my squadmates know what those sites were. The sites are still up and are
http://www.facethejury.com and
http://www.judgeme.net. Sites that are frequented and posted in by hormonal teenagers and 20 something people that are pretty much all attention grubbing posers. In my positions on those sites I managed to, through pushing the pm issue on arguments, decrease the drama to practically zero. That's pretty much gone by the wayside these days but my point still stands. I am pretty astute about human nature and I truly believe in this point.
I really don't mind a little chest thumping or trash talking on 200 even though I'll never join in on it even when that magic day comes that I can roll and land 3 to 5 kills more often than not. But the grade school arguing and b#tching is just going to drag the arena down.
I'll give an example of what I mean. A couple of nights ago I was engaged with 2 hurris in a 109 and a 38 joined the fight with alt. I pointed nose down and ran like a cocker spaniel being pursued by a pit bull. Unfortunately for me I couldn't get away and the 38 driver got an easy kill.
SO WHAT? I landed in the tower and got a fresh new airplane. My IMMEDIATE reaction was.. you !@#%!@%%@#$% what are you thinking? But I took a deep breath and said to myself 'the regs will take care of that over time'. In order to take this guy to task I would have to OPEN THE TEXT BUFFER, TYPE IN MY REACTION, AND HIT ENTER. So the people that want to talk S(@# are either summa cum laude's of Mavis Bacons typing school or incapable of thinking before they hit enter. YES I was angry for a minute so I took that minute to decide to throw the 38 driver a
and go get a beer and calm down.
Example b is early last week I saw a friendly engaged with a con and turned towards the fight. The friendly asked me to stay out and I grabbed some alt and circled the fight just in case my guy got capped. Don't really remember what happened after that but it looked like the kind of fight we all dream of.
Example c is on Wednesday night I had a spit on the run and I saw tracers coming over my bird. Looked back and I had two friendlies in good position and broke off. My personal feeling is 2 v 1 is okay. Any more than that is overkill.
Now this board, and the arenas, are substantially more difficult to moderate or staff than the places I've worked in because, as a member of the staff, you're not only riding herd on the populace but competing with and against them.
So that adds an additonal degree of difficulty on them for a position that I do not believe they receive any financial compensation. Let's cut them a little slack shall we? If you think they HO'd or whatevered you then tell them privately, check the film if you have it, and realize that they are human beings that are capable of making the same mistakes that we all make.
We have a growing arena with a great group of core players. I would hope that all of the regulars would step back, take a breath, drop some of the personal animus, and step up and do what is best for the health of the arena and all of us to act like gentlemen.
None of us are stat rats that I know of so really what does it matter if you DO get killed in a manner that is generally unacceptable.
Here's another idea I'd like to float. Say I'm on Axis and Oldman is on Allies and I engaged with someone I don't recognize and they HO me on the initial merge and pop my oil. Nothing wrong with pm'ing Oldman or any of the rest of the core group and saying 'hey man ####### just ho'd me can you talk to him about that?'.
I think that's a better way of avoiding a way of poisoning the personality of the arena than dragging stuff out in public when the cost was really only a few minutes of time and $15 a month or $16.03 in my case.
Again.. just my opinions.