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Offline CAP1

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« on: June 19, 2007, 04:02:38 PM »
hey all,
 as much as i don't like to talk about this kind of thing, i have lost a good friend. i got the phone call about 9:30EST monday, that he had passed away. this gentleman was a vietnam vet, and gave 20 years of his life as a volenteer fire fighter, and  was very active in our squadron of the Civil Air Patrol. at the time of his illness, he was also employed by the NJ Office of Emergency Managment. cancer took this great  man. it was a 7 or 8 month battle, and the doctors told him and his wife that it was beaten. after almost a year of not leaving his home except for trips to the hospital for the chemo and radiation treatments, he was able to come to meetings for a month or so. it seemed as if it snuck back up on him though.....woke up in uncontrollable pain, ambulance took him to the hospital where they did MRI, XRAYS, and whatever other tests they do. they found a tumor on his spine. that was only 2 weeks ago. right now, i don't know how we're supposed to believe in certian things when this man who spent his whole life doing nothing but serving his country, and the public, was taken in such a long drug out painful manner....he deserved better. at least he's in no pain now, and hopefully in a good place. he is survived by his wife, and his 14 year old son...both of whom we at hte squadron will try to help as best as we can.
 
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« Reply #1 on: June 19, 2007, 04:10:12 PM »
Very sorry for your loss. Sounds like a honorable gent.

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« Reply #2 on: June 19, 2007, 04:20:21 PM »
very sorry to hear this john, it seems life is all a test of our faith, whatever that faith may be. Don't let this tragic event cause anymore trouble in the future than it has to, your own faith must not suffer to further the suffering of what is already greatly upsetting for those involved.

S! sir, chin up. prayers for his family.
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« Reply #3 on: June 19, 2007, 04:46:12 PM »
very sorry for you'r loss

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« Reply #4 on: June 19, 2007, 08:57:03 PM »
to your friend, and condolences to you and his family.
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« Reply #5 on: June 19, 2007, 09:24:47 PM »
Very sorry to hear Cap, my condolences to you and his family
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« Reply #6 on: June 19, 2007, 09:27:55 PM »
I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your friend.
There is never a good answer to the question why.  I don't know what, but if there is anything I can do to help out, i'm down here in south jersey also, so if there is anything I can help with let me know.

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« Reply #7 on: June 19, 2007, 09:32:52 PM »
It always sad to hear good people like this have stuff like this happen to them.

Hopefully his family can deal with this well.

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« Reply #8 on: June 19, 2007, 09:35:16 PM »
My Prayers go out to his Family and yours

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« Reply #9 on: June 19, 2007, 09:36:08 PM »
My condolences for your loss.

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« Reply #10 on: June 19, 2007, 09:41:36 PM »
Sorry for your loss
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« Reply #11 on: June 19, 2007, 11:02:04 PM »
Sad to here.. condolences to his family and yours...

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« Reply #12 on: June 21, 2007, 03:40:12 PM »
thanks ALL of you for well wishes!!!!!! we DO have a great group of people here!!!!!!

yanksfan........thank you too for offer of assistance....i did relay that to angie too.......she didn't take ya up on it, but i could see in her face how much she appreciated the offer though..........


<>all of you!!!!!

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« Reply #13 on: June 21, 2007, 03:51:51 PM »
Sorry to hear of your loss John.About 2 years ago my Father got cancer.We found out he had it then 2 weeks later he was gone.Its a dreadful thing.I was 35 at the time.It must be very hard on his son at just 14.My condolences goes out to his family.

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« Reply #14 on: June 21, 2007, 03:59:10 PM »
Condolences to the family