I have relatively small hands, too - and the best I've found so far is the CH Fighterstick. I then cut a piece of foam from a camping mattress and taped it on top of the hand rest on the handle.
I tried the Sytek Cyborg at one time, which had an adjustable hand rest. I liked that feature, but hated the sloppiness of the stick itself.
Good luck finding something that fits - and welcome to the game.