It would be impossible for me to know how you feel but I think I can imagine some of it. I am to marry my fiancée next month, on the 3rd, and what haunts me is the possibility of something like that happening to her. We can only live this life to the best of our abilities, so much of it is out of our control, and trust that God has seen fit to give us what we ask for. I shall be praying for you and for her children. You all have my deepest sympathies.
Mark