What roc said, in spades!
I've seen silat make some slightly off color comments, but nothing that would make an 8 yr old blush. Make an 8 yr old go "Huh, whats the ?" but not blush. What he was trying to do, as he usually does so very well, was defuse the situation. And for this your blaming him?
This can ONLY be because you have something against silat.
If you really had a leg to stand on, you'd of gone straight to HT with this.
They'd of checked the logs, and if Silat had been in the wrong he'd of been dealt with, quickly, quietly.
But you knew that wasn't going to work.
So you brought it here instead.
All I can say mr hunglo & all your various shades is best not be letting me catch you in the TA until I cool off.