1) The younger players bring it on themselves.
2) The young player in your example represents a small percentage of the youngsters who come here to play.
3) While you and your sqad mates may have had some affect on the young man you mention....it is likely not as much as you think.
4) It is up to the youngsters parents to give them guidance, not us....a bunch of total strangers. We can set examples that their parents can point to....other than that we bear no responsability. Many young men (and women) are being raised in situations where the other parent is absent. In every case I know, the other parent, whether male or female, is either absent by choice or because they chose to break the law and are incarcerated. It's not the judges fault. If you want to fill the "void" left by the missing parent, that's fine, go sign up for "Big Brothers" or volunteer at the YMCA so you can PHYSICALLY interact with the kids.
5) Teach the "way of the warrior" over the Internet???? For some reason, I don't think you are joking about this. You can't teach someone how to be a warrior on the frigging Internet. I reccommend the Marine Corps...they will teach them everything they need to know.
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....Superstars......right.
Originally posted by Helm
I am really tired of the endless bashing of the younger players that join our community. I find this bashing 10 times more childish then any antics that a younger flyer does. I find the term “squeaker” offensive and irresponsible.
In the summer of 1998 in Air Warrior a Father and a Son joined our squad, the boy was 13 at the time. The father’s interest waned and he soon stopped flying. Yet his son continued on with us until the Winter of 2006.
The young man become a great flyer and got better and better as time went on. His attitude was very positive and he was always ready to join in what ever the squad was up to.
At the age of 16 this young man took flying lessons and obtained his private pilot’s license. He then began working on his instrument flying ratting which he accomplished. He is now in college and working towards a masters degree.
I feel strongly that the example set by myself and the members of our squad helped to shape this young man’s future. We always treated him as an equal and provided guidance and leadership to him. I think he enjoyed having adults he could hang out with and talk to on a 1 to 1 basis.
The fact is that parents can’t do it all for a child. It is also our duty and responsibility as Men to show youngsters the path to manhood. In today’s society many young men are raised alone by their Mothers and have very little contact with their Fathers. (wisdom of judges?) This is a void that we in this community can fill. Young Warriors need to be shown the path, not berated for their mistakes. Set an example, make a difference in a young man’s life.
Ask yourself: ….”What have I done to help a young man mature and follow the way of the Warrior” ?
To those of you who help shape the leaders of tomorrow, I salute you all! Remember this: …”Today’s Rookie, is Tomorrow’s Superstar”
Sincerely
Helm