lol Holden.

Aren't you gay anymore then Dowd?
hey mate, long time no see.
Congrats.
Yer bastige!

I got bored of being gay. Being well dressed and having an impeccably tidy flat soon loses its novelty. Besides, I discovered that nurses are fun so I'm marrying one. Good to see ya mate (you got mail).
I think Txmom perhaps has it right about excessive traveling - I'm ok with it, but my fiancee has said she doesn't want 'people telling us where we need to be and at what time' etc. We are used to independent travelling and like to plan our own holidays.
I also suspect that since I have left most of the wedding planning to her, she is going to be more stressed than me on the day and will need to relax. I'm just planning the stag do and coming up with honeymoon ideas - easy... I think

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I've never been to America and would like to find out what all the fuss is about.

The other half has been a couple of times to Florida, and ever since she swam with dolphins over there has wanted to repeat it. We'll be travelling late July-August or maybe delay it to September to get a good deal.
I'm sure finland is nice, but we've never visited the main central European sights.
I'm not too bothered about a cruise unless it is somewhere unusual or perhaps a tall ship cruise. I spent a week on a ship around the Carribean Christmas 2000 and have seen many of the places. The Med is different though, might look into that.
Thanks for all the tips and the link to the other thread. Anymore tips would be welcome.