#1, instead of doing it on your own, support someone else who has a plan. \
Pay close attention to what, how, and why he does what he does. In short, apprentice yourself to someone else for a while. Learn how to do it right.
#2 Plan on building that reputation for a couple of years. In the meantime anytime someone asks for help, be prepared to scrap what you were doing.
#3 Don't be a little general sitting there telling old vets what they need to do.
We've seen and done it all, and we really don't need to hear it.
#4 When you do eventually get a mission going or guys following you, don't micromanage. Layout basic goals, and how you want to accomplish them. Take off, put your plane in autopilot and LEAVE it there. There is nothing worse than trying to follow someone who's all over the sky.
#5 look into joining a squadron.