Originally posted by lazs2
curval... you are still missing the point... you have no idea if steve says these things to his wife... you know that you would be frieghtened to tho and expect to be "smacked" so you project your dishonesty and fear onto him.
moot.. I may have to disagree with you and tigress on the whole "civilized" and "educated" thing... surely, the ones who lack education and/or were brought up on meaner streets are closer to feral but... we all are. And... I don't believe that man is the only animal on the planet that lacks hardwired instincts.
men act like men because that is what they are... they can cover it up or re-train but... they always revert under stress.. if they don't die first. It is one of the most common themes in literature for good reason... it is true...
I believe that our civilization is a thin veneer.. I point to riots and road rage and school shootings as proof... where education and upbringing can't beat out instinct and hardwiring.
Women are the same.. they are hardwired with a layer of civilization and now.. some feminism and indocrtinization from education... in the end tho... they are nest builders wanting security for their offspring and a strong mate with good genetics.. they aren't even hardwired to be manogamous.. they are hardwired to seek out new genetic material every 4 or 5 years or so... and they don't even know why...
No... men and women are different.. it has nothing to do with the way we are raised... it is the opposite in fact.... we are raised differently because we are different. You can't force a woman or raise a woman to be a man... she will revert to nature.. to... her hardwiring. Same for men.
watch a riot some time and don't say that you could never go that feral... you are only an incident.. only a shortage away from it. If you can't go feral you will die. To say that you are different than the thousands of us in riots is an odd form of denial.. of course we would all do that if we were starving or our family were.
lazs
Laz...Laz..Laz.
First of all...what women do you work around?? You must be gutterally clueless if you walk on eggshells around them. The fact that you have posted this much on such an inane topic in this, the 21st century, proves to me you belong back with our kin, the Cro Magnon. Perhaps you are the walking, talking, modern piltdown man. (I'll give you time to look that one up.)
I work with women constantly, but then again the women I work with are all driven, with most having PhD's under their belts. I personally enjoy every minute of my time with them, and treat them as equals, as I should. (I'm no metrosexual, I played semi pro ice hockey before grad school. I guarantee I have twice the marbles and three times the scars you have) Not a single one of the women I work with would cower under your persistent BS, and could run circles around you mentally and physically. It's the People that matter, not their sex.
The women I work with don't back down from 15 foot Tiger Sharks, so a little guppy like you would mean nothing.
Grow up bro. Do humanity a favor.